siblings: visa is always in his own world, in books, and on the computer. also guitar.
friends: visa is a kind earnest optimistic prolific hyperverbal shameless nerd
joined first role bc I needed money, stayed 5+ years because it was a great work environment, my boss was like my therapist/mentor/coach, kept learning and growing
since leaving I’ve been working for myself bc I value creative freedom & personal autonomy more than anything else
“visa is excellent at synthesizing disparate points of view, he’s a marketer who understands engineers. very clear thinker & communicator. sensitive and sharp. A+ content creator. he’s also great at making people feel comfortable & at ease, resolving conflicts and arguments”
they’d have great project management skills. good with timelines & schedules, good at proceduralizing things, good at asking results-oriented questions, thinking about deliverables, naturally inclined to ask “why haven’t we shipped this yet”, persistent, industrious, disciplined
Dear Visa-28:
- (1) start texting / emailing the coolest people you know now
- (2) start making and uploading videos now
- (3) start a patreon and ebooks now
I learned all of these things through (A) trial and error and (B) exposure to excellent peers
1 → B
accelerate A
Roam, for the bidirectional links and the bullet-level linking. Why wasn’t this already a thing everywhere?
also Twitter threads and QTs which is why I’m on this product so much, though idk how deliberate the creators are. They’re prob just slowly learning from their users
It’s almost always people and relationships. For some reason people everywhere are always lonely and disconnected, and yet it’s rare that anybody takes the initiative to connect people. Generally also asking/answering “you know what would be cool...” and then following through
I’m always proud of every time I’ve persuaded anybody to make content and share their knowledge, expertise, insight, perspective with the world. It expands their career capital, their influence/reach, in a very real sense it expands their power and makes them wealthier
At my last job I was pretty blessed that we hired mostly great people who could have thoughtful conversations about conflict, I don’t think my work was ever adversely affected
I did have a shit boss in the military once but nothing I could do about that, simply cultivate zen
I’m probably underestimating the degree to which I’ve smoothed out conflicts over the years almost w/o realising I was doing it. I just approach things with genuine curiosity & try to figure out where everyone is coming from, what their constraints are, what they’re trying to do
if you want to hire me you have to convince me that
1- I’ll be working for someone that I respect/admire and will learn from
2- in a growing market/industry
3- to make a lasting dent in a meaningful problem that I can’t do better by myself
nobody has convinced me of this yet
fun! Feel like I just LARPed a DIY job interview. Haven’t had one of those in years
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there are several interesting things to be said about the mass Ghibli event
First thing is that people don’t often know in advance what they’d want out of a tool until they see it for themselves. “generate any image you can think of!” draws a blank for lot of people
so lesson in there for anybody making things; customers/users need more guidance than you might think.
Second thing is I think this is an ongoing preference cascade and consensus cascade, at least some of the people who are adamantly anti-AI concede this is a cute/fun use case
for a lot of people this is the first time they’re like “ok fine I want one for myself and heck the whole timeline is doing it so what’s so wrong if I do it too”
I think this is probably a good thing. I think it gets more ppl interested in art and visuals etc
i haven't really bothered to make a deliberate effort to grow my twitter following or to write bangers etc in years, but i still have a clear sense of how to do it and i've advised other people who wanted to do the same, and witnessed them succeed. here are a couple of thoughts
one of the most important things you have to remember, especially if you're still a small account starting out and trying to get more attention, is that people aren't reading your tweets in isolation. your tweets are showing up as a 'beat' on a timeline
so if your tweet is something that's moderately unclear or confusing, or has too many details, or the sentiment is too complex, people's likeliest response is to scroll past it
this changes once people know you, care about you, believe that it's worth the effort to decipher you
there’s a thing I often wish I could explain to people… but hilariously, it fits the same pattern I’m trying to explain:
a lot of the most interesting, valuable things you can do are things that have very small windows of opportunity
so in the case of matchmaking, a beginner matchmaker might think it’s a matter of finding the best possible people (according to some set of metrics) for the best possible people.
but the expert matchmaker will tell you that actually timing and seasonality etc matter more
in something like football you might think that the player with the most stamina, best striking ability, etc is the strongest
but the guy that scores the most goals is typically the guy who is most sensitive to the situation. Messi famously just walks around the pitch Observing
one of the oldest stories we have on record is from 1850BC Egypt called "The Eloquent Peasant". It's fairly short yet interestingly complex. i'll try and retell it as quickly and entertainingly as i can
we begin with our boi Khun-Anup, a poor peasant just tryna sell his wares...
to get to the market he has to pass thru land that's owned by nobles. ultimately i believe the land is owned by the pharaoh, but it's administrated by the high steward Rensi, who in turn lets it be run by the local goon Nemtynakht... a ~4000yo matryoshka of bureaucracy
so anyway. the local goon Nemtynakht is a corrupt mf and decides to rob our boi Khun-Anup. he lays out a cloth across the narrow path, which is in between a river and the goon's private fields of barley.
Khun-Anup is like, pls sir, I can't move, I don't wanna trample your cloth
for starters I don’t think you’re selfish for not having children
and kids actually are a joy to have
but if you need a different reason, I really liked what some other couple once said, about wanting to have “a maximum human experience”. I’ll elaborate how I interpreted that
but first again I’ll reiterate that you *don’t* have to have kids. i don’t think it’s something that should be done from a sense of weary obligation. I believe it’s possible to have a meaningful, beautiful life without kids and you should do what feels right for you in your heart
ok so like the first wild thing to me about having kids is that you get to see your own childhood and your own parents from a sort of “exploded perspective” view. it’s like seeing the matrix, the current timeline directly loops over the past and it’s narratively ultra satisfying