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May 12, 2021 13 tweets 5 min read Read on X
excellent thread of questions, I’m gonna answer them all. Will screenshot to avoid bombing Julie’s mentions. (h/t @ankitshah)
siblings: visa is always in his own world, in books, and on the computer. also guitar.

friends: visa is a kind earnest optimistic prolific hyperverbal shameless nerd
joined first role bc I needed money, stayed 5+ years because it was a great work environment, my boss was like my therapist/mentor/coach, kept learning and growing

since leaving I’ve been working for myself bc I value creative freedom & personal autonomy more than anything else
“visa is excellent at synthesizing disparate points of view, he’s a marketer who understands engineers. very clear thinker & communicator. sensitive and sharp. A+ content creator. he’s also great at making people feel comfortable & at ease, resolving conflicts and arguments”
they’d have great project management skills. good with timelines & schedules, good at proceduralizing things, good at asking results-oriented questions, thinking about deliverables, naturally inclined to ask “why haven’t we shipped this yet”, persistent, industrious, disciplined
Dear Visa-28:

- (1) start texting / emailing the coolest people you know now
- (2) start making and uploading videos now
- (3) start a patreon and ebooks now

I learned all of these things through (A) trial and error and (B) exposure to excellent peers

1 → B

accelerate A
Roam, for the bidirectional links and the bullet-level linking. Why wasn’t this already a thing everywhere?

also Twitter threads and QTs which is why I’m on this product so much, though idk how deliberate the creators are. They’re prob just slowly learning from their users
It’s almost always people and relationships. For some reason people everywhere are always lonely and disconnected, and yet it’s rare that anybody takes the initiative to connect people. Generally also asking/answering “you know what would be cool...” and then following through
I’m always proud of every time I’ve persuaded anybody to make content and share their knowledge, expertise, insight, perspective with the world. It expands their career capital, their influence/reach, in a very real sense it expands their power and makes them wealthier
At my last job I was pretty blessed that we hired mostly great people who could have thoughtful conversations about conflict, I don’t think my work was ever adversely affected

I did have a shit boss in the military once but nothing I could do about that, simply cultivate zen
I’m probably underestimating the degree to which I’ve smoothed out conflicts over the years almost w/o realising I was doing it. I just approach things with genuine curiosity & try to figure out where everyone is coming from, what their constraints are, what they’re trying to do
if you want to hire me you have to convince me that

1- I’ll be working for someone that I respect/admire and will learn from

2- in a growing market/industry

3- to make a lasting dent in a meaningful problem that I can’t do better by myself

nobody has convinced me of this yet
fun! Feel like I just LARPed a DIY job interview. Haven’t had one of those in years

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Sep 21
for starters I think Rich is totally worth $1000/hr to the right client, even $10k/hr for some

second- I’ve seen versions of this crop up, people balking at how much others charge for their services, and imo it’s a mix of scarcity mindset + lack of project sense, market sense
maybe in Rich’s case the phrase “vibe mechanic” comes across as a little silly or wooey or something, probably on purpose. But what Rich does is help people interface better with each other, and there are corporate contexts where this is worth $100k++
in some situations, like in handling a dispute between two cofounders of a billion dollar company, a “vibe mechanic” can be literally worth millions. Think about this, seriously. Don’t waste your energy fighting and arguing over scraps
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Sep 17
I actually wrote @introspectvv because of this. It all began with the question of, how does it ever make sense that I experience boredom when we live in perhaps most exciting, stimulating time in human history? when there’s so much possibility and opportunity everywhere?
I compared it to other experiences like “it’s so crowded, nobody goes there”, etc. in 2016 I didn’t have a succinct 1-word verb for “define your utility-values more precisely”, but I’ve since encoded that into my definition of the word Introspect
there’s at least two kinds of boredom. one is blissful pleasant idleness. nobody minds that. the other extreme is what I call corrosive or foreboding or ominous boredom. (I encountered a book where someone called it DEMONIC boredom lol). And I have a much clearer sense of it now
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Aug 2
debating internally whether to discuss someone's earnestly cringe response to a friend's tweet... i'll paraphrase it: ~"you dont know me but we are uniquely suited for each other and we should get to know one another, pls DM me"

(i dont share this to dunk but to help)
i've sorta been on both sides of this, i vaguely recall maybe having sent some earnest emails and/or DMs when i was a kid that were sort of in this spirit, though I think even then I was at least careful to do what I think is the most important part: offer supporting evidence
basically, if you have a special connection with someone– and you might! I have had this with people I had never met or spoken with before! – the way to connect is not to say "i believe we have a special connection", but to *demonstrate* that special connection.

how?
Read 12 tweets
Jul 22
a lot of loneliness plays out like this: people accumulate past grievances that they feel have not been appropriately heard. they front-load interactions with this (eg complaining about ex on first date), which makes other people feel unheard. this perpetuates the wretched cycle
a lot of solutions to the loneliness problem begin by finding some way to metabolize the grievances, whether it’s through therapy, or drugs, or art

partial solutions are possible and better than nothing; and most people do live in some state of leaky compartmentalization
how that plays out is you keep it together well enough to not complain about your ex on the first date, but it slips out in a fight maybe six months later, “that’s the thing with you men/women…”
Read 7 tweets
Jul 21
nonpartisan tweets about framing: scrolling through @joebiden's timeline, which i assume is run by his team, i can't help but notice just how many of the tweets are about trump, with pictures of trump, videos of trump. look at trump, think about trump. imagine trump as president

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@JoeBiden I remember @HillaryClinton doing the same thing. imagine trump as president. picture trump in the oval office
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meanwhile @teamtrump wants you to also imagine trump as president. pictures of trump. videos of trump. trump trump trump Image
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Jun 28
a critical skill if you wanna walk through the walls of culture, and/or “see the matrix” of social reality, is to de-fixate on who the winners or losers of some social exchange are, who’s higher status or lower status, whose group is better or worse, who’s allied with who, etc
the way to de-fixate is to be curious

curious about the truth, curious about how things look from the other side, about how you might be wrong, about what is or is not technically possible, about what the material constraints are, about what the alternate narratives might be,
this sort of thing ordinarily feels redundant to me to say out loud, since it’s kind of been my natural operating system for as long as I can remember. I’m usually only reminded of it when I bump into someone who doesn’t seem to have access to curiosity
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