It's officially been 3 months since I decided to take a break from working, and let me tell you...this has been one of the best decisions I've ever made and taking time to simply exist (outside of finding my next perfect role) has forever changed me.
Some folks have asked what I've learned so far and instead of responding individually, I wanted to do a "one for all".
On my sabbatical, I have been reminded why I pursue money/my career. I used to think it was to live a lavish life. Now I know it's the freedom to do what I want. To take months off work, take care of my mom if she's sick, spontaneously travel, simply exist, whiskey hunt, etc.
Before my sabbatical, my life revolved around work. While I don't mind working hard, this is no longer how I'd like to live. I no longer need to constantly be productive to consider myself valuable. Sometimes simply existing & doing things that energize me is enough.
Before my sabbatical, calculating how much money I'd "miss out on" would keep me from taking a multi-month break. But as much as I love money, my sanity is more important. I don't think humans were meant to work 40+ hours a week. So make money, invest it well, & take breaks.
Before my sabbatical, I didn't realize just how unique & valuable I am. I'm def not the smartest engineer you'll ever meet, but I have a conglomerate of qualities that make me an absolute powerhouse. I'm not perfect for every company, but the perfect one will value & pay me.
Lastly, before my sabbatical, I didn't realize how much I gauged my self worth on how "successful" I felt I was. I haven't been rejected (yet) by any companies, but even the thought cripples me. Im trying to take this realization & make a power play out of it, but it can be tough
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