Thread by @Wizarab10

Please, those infidelity series is not a justification to hate women. Each story is personal to the victim and it does not represent the gender. You were probably hurt by only or two people.

You can't hate women. You have no reason to. There is no justification for hating an entire gender. Women make up the other half of the human specie and they are an extention of us. We share this ecosystem together and we have no option but to love, cherish and co-habit with them

We are not feminists who hate and claim to have justification for their hate. You are not the cause of their trauma. To hate an entire gender is a cop-out from personal responsibility and a refusal to heal.

Daily, we are inundated with reports about how men are the cause of all crises and evil in the world. Every heartbreak and emotional pain are allegedly caused by men - no thanks to feminists and a large fan base too lazy to be honest and accept personal responsibility.

The silence of men gave volume to repeated lies. The thread sandfilled their one sided allegations and bias. Evil has no gender and we are all walking around with our share of hurt because life breaks everybody. The loudest voice in the room is not necessarily the victim.

Men have spoken and it became lucid that the very thing men are accused of doing to women, women did to men. Hurt people hurt others and I do not want you to go hurting other women for the offence of one or for the faux doctrines of feminists.

I want you to heal so you can be whole to love again.

For those who find it hard to understand my tweets or misinterpret it. The goal is not to hate women. You have no reason to. You can't hate them.

The goal is to make you aware of women's nature and make you conscious of your decision making. Truth is, you accept the love you think you deserve. Love is not blind, love is intentional. However, in being intentional, understand that to love is to give and to receive.

You woman deserves everything good you have to offer but first ensure she is your woman in the grand scheme of things - she is faithful, she is gracious, she is loving, she is feminine, she is submissive, she respects and honours you.

In same light, honour her, esteem her highly, be faithful, love and cherish her, protect her and be intentional about your commitment and confessions of love. Love is a two way street.

RED PILL

I avoid using the word red pill or quotes such as Alpha male for good reasons.

Like Feminism, you could get so lost you think your goal is to hate women. For those who like to ask if I hate women, I love women. It is as simple as that. Red pill teachers open your mind but please use your sense to draw a line in order not to become abusive or live in hate.

The teachings can be simplified thus- don't be a fool for love. Love who loves you. Don't accept disrespect from a woman. Don't trust a woman just because you date her but because she makes herself trust worthy. Man up to your responsibilities and relationship. Don't lose guard.

TRUST

This has been so abused that we twist it to promote our narcissistic dishonesty and disloyalty. Trust is not a gift. It is earned.

Trust is not - I trust her because she is my babe.

Trust is - I have known her for 5 years, this is what she does in such situation...

.... On that premise, she couldn't have done what you claimed. I trust her not to do that.

Trust is backed by consistent precedence not sexual relationship.

Please open your heart to love and be loved. One bad relationship should not kill your hope on the possibility of eternal bliss. My earnest wish for you is that you will find love in a heart that is receptive and loving and the memories you share will last a life time in 2 hearts

Keep the faith. Everything good will come. Peace, Love and Spaghetti 🍷

- Dickson