As some countries are vaccinating, there are still others where COVID-19 and its variants are ravaging lives and livelihoods; countries that are months if not years away from access to vaccinations. feministgiant.com/p/essay-some-o…
We are not standing on level grieving fields. With lockdowns being lifted in some places, we risk losing whatever small pockets of grief we are learning to stand in as governments, corporations, and CEOs rush us out to “normal.”
"Grief literacy provides a way forward. Grief literacy calls on all of us to be better acquainted with grief so that we can support ourselves and one another," @SusanCadell
Those of us who did not die must prepare to take our individual grief out into the world, find our place in communal mourning & nurturing & whisper to each other’s hearts “We know you’re strong.Look at what you survived. You can be soft here,we’ve got you” feministgiant.com/p/essay-some-o…
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I am happy with the life I have created. I have never wondered what it would have been like to have children. I say that because we often hear “you’ll regret it when it’s too late.” Well, here I am on the other side -- it is “too late” -- and I am here to say: I do not regret it.
Most books/essays I have seen about being childfree by choice are written by white cis women. We need to hear from more women of colour, women from different cultural & faith backgrounds as well as trans men & non-binary people who choose to be childfree. feministgiant.com/p/unmothering
Feminism is not: supporting a woman simply because she is a woman.
Sexism is not: any and all criticism of a woman.
Whenever Sen. Kyrsten Sinema of Arizona is in the news, I post this, which I wrote after she voted against raising the minimum wage. feministgiant.com/p/the-bespoke-…
Rather than fighting for the destruction of patriarchy, Sinema is part of a Sorority of Pinky Swear Feminists: they wear a bespoke feminism tailored to fit their aspirations of fighting whatever hurts them individually, and fuck the rest of us.
The 1st rule about the Sorority of Pinky Swears is you must support women no matter what.
The 2nd rule about the Sorority of Pinky Swears is you can’t criticize women no matter what.
But most important rule of the Sorority of Pinky Swears: Those women must be white & wealthy.
"At last year’s US Open, Osaka wore seven masks before and after her matches each bearing a different name of a Black person killed by police or a victim of racist violence.
"In an effort to spark conversations about the harm inflicted on Black lives,she placed her triumphs alongside painful emblems of the violent toll of white supremacy.
With her absence in Paris,Osaka is speaking to us again, this time about Black women’s wellness & mental health"
TW: police violence
The month of March began and ended with police murders of two women (that we know of), in England and in Mexico. Sarah Everard in England and And Victoria Esperanza Salazar in Mexico. Both by a form of suffocation. bbc.com/news/uk-englan…
Not everyone can call the police and not everyone wants to call the police and the police do not protect everyone. I don’t want to be protected. I want patriarchy to stop protecting cis men’s violence.
I am finally writing that essay on grief and grieving. Those of us who did not die, and who live in places lifting lockdowns, must prepare to take our individual grief out into the world and find our place in communal mourning, all while being urged and cajoled into "happiness."
When I moved to London in 1975 at the age of 7, the first time I went downstairs to play with the other children, they asked me if I was a boy or a girl. My English wasn’t so good and I ran back home.
I am writing about Hateshepsut: Egypt’s woman-god-king.
The King Herself.
She/he/they. Why did it take me so long to learn that Hatshepsut - who for more than 20 years was the most powerful person in the ancient world - alternated pronouns? Are you a girl? Are you a boy?