Thread by @ThePsychofLifes

2 Powerful Weapons To Turn Your Haters Into Friends

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Are you facing hate in the real world or online?

I know it can get hard. You might feel cornered.

It feels like everyone’s against you.

Don’t worry, my friend, here are 2 super-powerful weapons to change this

Firstly, you need to identify the core reason for receiving this hate.

Are you doing something wrong?

Are your thoughts not congruent with what society thinks?

Identifying the problem will help you to formulate the solution better.

Next, you have to be a little thick-skinned.

Understand that other people’s opinions can not affect your happiness.

Your happiness & sadness should be yours.

Stop getting influenced by others.

Now, what are those 2 POWERFUL WEAPONS I WAS TALKING ABOUT?

Those are:

- Resilience
- Empathy

Now you might undoubtedly think these cannot help you. You’re feeling this, right?

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF RESILIENCE & EMPATHY.

Just see what I'm saying⬇️

Let's take a hypothetical situation:

Hater: You’re dumb, don't speak about things you don't know

ME: Hey, I'm not dumb. You're dumb. I can speak whatever I want

H: You’re the most stupid person I've ever seen

M: Don’t be mean

H: You shouldn't be let out in public

M: *hurt*

Here's what you can do instead:

HATER: You’re dumb, don't speak about things you don't know about.

ME: Oh, that's right, I'm not as knowledgeable as you.

H: Yes, I know much more than you.

M: I agree. What are your views about this?

H: *tells you*

M: That's amazing; I never thought of it in such manner. Thanks for this

H: *is happy that he helped someone*

✅SITUATION DIFFUSED✅

This is how ladies & gentlemen, you handle a hater.

Being kind & empathetic can take you to places where nothing else can take you.

This will not only make you a new friend immediately, but also it’ll boost your confidence & self-esteem.

I have learnt this from @BrooksGibbs.

If you wanna witness this live, check his amazing video out. This is certainly life changer⬇️

TL;DR:

1. Understand the problem
2. Be thick skinned
3. Be resilient
4. Be empathetic

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