"In sterquiliniis invenitur" - In filth, it will be found.
What you most want to find will be found where you least wish to look.
You have things that come easy to you and that you're happy about pursuing, you found those things and followed them, and you've mastered them. You know all that.
But then there's other places and things you don't want to go to or that you haven't faced yet, and you haven't mastered. They have this monstrous aspect to them.
There will be a lot of things in your life that you're afraid of that you don't want to face. But if you want to put yourself together, that's precisely what you have to do.
It is frequently the case that what you want to find is to be found where you least wish to look.
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1/6 - With regards to telling if you are speaking authentically:
2/6 - Listen to yourself talk, as if a stranger was talking. Try not to identify too much with what you are saying. Then, observe. See if what you are saying makes you feel stronger, physically, or weaker.
3/6 - If it makes you feel weaker, stop saying it. Try to reformulate your speech until you can feel the ground under your feet solidifying. Then practice only saying things that make you strong.
My observation is that if there is a tight relationship and one party is betrayed by the other (falling in love with another person), it's almost always irreconcilable.
I've helped people try and struggle through that on both sides of the issue. The person who was betrayed and the person who did the betrayal.
People are often loath to figure out precisely where they are.
They don’t want to know because they’d rather be spread out, in a half-blind manner - in the fog - hoping that the place that they’re at is better than it is, and deluding themselves by remaining vague.
Rather than trying to figure out, “I’m right here, right now, with these specific problems”.
From Abigail Shrier's Irreversible Damage (2020): "Before 2012, there was no scientific literature on girls ages 11-21 ever having developed gender dysphoria..."
Henri Ellenberger's classic Discovery of the Unconscious (1970) noted the continual emergence of contagious psychological epidemics throughout the last three centuries....
See Dr. Lisa Littman's paper on "rapid onset gender dysphoria" for stats on the explosion of related medical activity journals.plos.org/plosone/articl…