Thread by @RationalMale

Women today have 2 choices:

1. Share a high value Alpha man with multiple women hoping to lock him down in marriage.

2. Marry a "less well‐suited" Beta male & hope he develops into a high-value man.

Both options require a humility women do not possess:
quillette.com/2021/06/28/mat…

Never think that women's desire to marry is based on idealistic love. Women are the pragmatists posing as romantics; it is men who are the romantic idealists – women are the opportunists.

therationalmale.com/2019/09/19/unm…

That's not to say women can't love men. It's to say that Love is a bonus to, not the incentive for, a woman to marry.

“Most American women hope to marry, but current shortages of marriageable men — men with a stable job and a good income — make this increasingly difficult.”

I discuss this at length in the Marriage chapter in my latest book, The Rational Male – Religion:
amazon.com/dp/B08RZ53G2Y

There is an expectation that men should evolve above their innate biology and condition themselves to find obese women arousing. Yet there is no societal push encouraging women to evolve-above the want of high-value men.

This is a result of women leveraging the Blank Slate to hold social power. Men's mating strategy is presumed to be socially constructed Patriarchy. Women's mating strategy is presumed to be innate, prudent and "correct".

Love is for "broke" men.

Monogamy serves Beta men. Alpha men still get sex, broke or not.