A relationship with a love-bomber will go from the best you’ve ever had to the worst. If someone you’ve just met is putting in effort/attention to unusually extreme amounts, chances are it’s a trap and they are trying to get you committed to them fast so the controlling can begin
I was so naive that I thought the reason he wanted to see me every day, take me out all the time, buy me gifts and start a relationship really quick was bc he was just a generous person and really into me. The abuse that started a few months later didn’t stop until I finally left
And then when you do finally leave, they will twist the narrative to make themselves look a victim, like you had no reason to leave, like you left them high and dry… and they are so manipulative, this bs will work and people will be turned against you. Very dangerous individuals
Interestingly, and quite sadly, it’s this exact super-affectionate super-effort behaviour from partners that we’re led to believe is actually a good thing. It’s very hard to navigate dating when you don’t know who is genuine and who is a psychopath
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