13 Relationship Red Pills:
1. Unhealthy people are everywhere. If you put lust & emotional attachment over establishing a healthy, shared lifestyle you’ll likely perish.
2. You’re not looking to be completed, you’re looking to be complemented with a compatible partner.
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1. Unhealthy people are everywhere. If you put lust & emotional attachment over establishing a healthy, shared lifestyle you’ll likely perish.
2. You’re not looking to be completed, you’re looking to be complemented with a compatible partner.
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3. You should both be better together than apart but fully capable of being alone successfully.
4. You don’t look for some idea of perfection out there in the opposite sex.
You become happy, healthy & stable on your own to discover who’s perfect for you as you grow.
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4. You don’t look for some idea of perfection out there in the opposite sex.
You become happy, healthy & stable on your own to discover who’s perfect for you as you grow.
Cont…
5. Everyone has a shadow side. Your job is to confront & integrate your shadow the soonest you can before intermingling with another’s.
Stay away from those who provoke your shadow & look for someone who subdues it.
6. It doesn’t matter how hot or flashy they are, look deeper.
Stay away from those who provoke your shadow & look for someone who subdues it.
6. It doesn’t matter how hot or flashy they are, look deeper.
7. Vetting is the best way to wade through the plethora of options & clarify the process of getting to know if someone is right for you to commit to long term.
This goes for any kind of relationship, not just romantic.
Learn it & internalize it.
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This goes for any kind of relationship, not just romantic.
Learn it & internalize it.
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8. Personal growth isn’t linear & therefore happily “settling down” takes as long as it takes.
Judging people HARSHLY for their path getting there is short sighted.
There’ll always be someone who’s compatible with your specific trade offs so it’s never too late to VET for love.
Judging people HARSHLY for their path getting there is short sighted.
There’ll always be someone who’s compatible with your specific trade offs so it’s never too late to VET for love.
9. The best path to take for an optimal journey through life reveals women should focus on preparing for marriage & family BEFORE they commit to a career not after.
She can work & expand her mind without the opportunity cost of sacrificing 10+ fertile yrs for AMBITION.
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She can work & expand her mind without the opportunity cost of sacrificing 10+ fertile yrs for AMBITION.
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10. Men nor women are the enemy. Any animosity towards the opposite sex is self sabotage.
You’re meant to bring the best out in each other & appreciate that you need each other for what you uniquely have to offer.
This means you’re equally valuable with purposeful polarities.
You’re meant to bring the best out in each other & appreciate that you need each other for what you uniquely have to offer.
This means you’re equally valuable with purposeful polarities.
11. The commonalities men & women share should bring them together in unity.
The contrasts create sexual polarity for a purpose of pair bonding.
12. Both genders have masculine & feminine traits, which better reflect their darkness & light. They are meant to coexist in harmony.
The contrasts create sexual polarity for a purpose of pair bonding.
12. Both genders have masculine & feminine traits, which better reflect their darkness & light. They are meant to coexist in harmony.
13. A shared life together will be a fluid partnership.
Without the deference to the best of a man (steer) & the best of a woman (nourish) your ship will likely face storms too rough to survive.
Honor these truths with mutual dutifulness despite the crazy world around you.
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Without the deference to the best of a man (steer) & the best of a woman (nourish) your ship will likely face storms too rough to survive.
Honor these truths with mutual dutifulness despite the crazy world around you.
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