My courtship style is so patient, so curious - so confident - it is liable to be misconstrued for absence of desire in the city. I know no pick-up lines. I have never had use for them. I ask people about their lives, I observe them. In the end, we grow into each other. Or not.
I have come across women who would ask after 2 days: "tell me what you want", or "T. ask me already": hoping I would declare desire. I find that quite unoriginal & uninteresting. I mean, you are a whole book, and we are on page one. How can I love you when I don't know you?
I think it is because I do not believe in negotiating desire. I do not believe that it is my job to convince the other party to like me. I simply wish to reveal myself to them & maybe over time, they will buy it. It is, for this reason, I also do not "fight for love"
I would concede if I was ever to be pitted against another man, or men, for a woman's desire. My time, curiosity & attention are all the investments I need to win you. If that is not enough, it would be a loss otherwise. We are not of the same waters. Your fish will come.
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