Bigger is NOT better: Let's talk aboutπŸ† size:

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1. Bodily structure is mainly a function of genes. Eg, the size of one's muscles, feet, hands, nose, etc. There's little one can do with the size of their feet/hands. Those are inherited. It's not like ppl stand on a queue to choose the size of their feet...
2. It's not only affected by DNA (backbone of a gene), but can also be affected by gene expression (the conduct of the gene). In other words, twins can have the same DNA sequence for feet, but the expression of such genes can determine the size of their feet.
3. So, a πŸ†is a biological organ that is also inherited, which the owner has contribution to itπŸ˜‚. Before you think: oh, so a father has a big πŸ†, the son can inherit it. Maybe or maybe not!
- remember, there's also a role played by recombination...
4. That is, it's not as straightforward as it might seem.
- there's (a) gene/s responsible for development of the male genitals, which include the testis-determining factor.
- the expression of this gene can also determine the size...
5. Done with biology, now let's come to the real issue:
- a man's world is characterized by the tension b/w power & vulnerability.
- that why the sane man who apprlears the strongest and a bully could turn out he's making up for his vulnerability...
6. Now, it's the same with his πŸ† - it serves as his source of power where he can display his virility/masculinity. The same πŸ† is his source vulnerability. A negative comment on his πŸ† can bring his confidence tumbling down...
7. Y'day, I was listening a VN of a woman (cheated on) talking over the phone that even this πŸ† he displays 'ayikho'. OK, I had to laughπŸ˜‚ then I continued with the VN. Women has picked that point of vulnerability in men. But will assist men from overcoming..
8. Was a speaker in one Men's Conference when I asked men to bring their partners to the talk. As I expected, a question came from a younger woman at the back about the size of a man's πŸ†. The answer to the question led to a long interesting convo with all...
9. My answer was:
- it is not the the size of your pencil but how you use your pencil to write your name. So, a long pencil without skill of writing your name is of no use. YES! Write your name properly and no one will bother with size of your pencilπŸ˜‚
10. A woman is not her genitals. She's a a person IN TOTALITY. You cannot fail to approach intimacy in its TOTALITY and expect your πŸ† to perform miracles. That which you fail to do as a partner cannot be replaced by igqengegqenge ne gqajolo leπŸ†...
11. You also cannot fail on πŸ† and think it will make up. But its the experience in TOTALITY.
- satisfaction is NOT a door that hinges on the πŸ† size - it is MULTIFACTORIAL. Genital interaction is a slice of the bigger cake of intimacy...
12. Most men who think have small πŸ† have, in reality, average ones. Most are fit for purposeπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

But the problem is not biological but psychological. I've councelled several men who were meditating of enlargement...
13. Made them face their inadequacies - their poor self-esteem, which made them changed their minds from the enlargement. Their problems were less the size of their πŸ† but size of their confidence.

Again: focus on the skill of writing your name...
15. Stop attaching your identity to your πŸ†. If you do so, it will be easy for anyone to crush you. Plus, your πŸ† is not 'your manhood' but your reproductive organ - it's a biological organ

This will also assist you when it chooses to misbehave, as it will,
To be able to treat it a biological problem that needs the attention of those trained to deal with it. Once you think it's 'your nanhood', then you'd be embarrassed to even seeking for help. Then it will create collateral damage as it will affect the other...
16. Can't leave this one out:
- I've interviewed several women on this.
1. one initially undermined this other guy - she looked at hisπŸ†, and felt: "Ndizakulamva apha!"πŸ˜‚
Guess what? That's the guy she never forgot in her entire mjolo careerπŸ˜‚
2. The other had children from the same guy but there was no difference b/w prior to delivery and after delivery. Kuyafana nje.

But it's in the mind! If you didn't know this, well, the most useful sex organ is not the one b/w legs but the one b/w ears.

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