I'm seeing over and over the pandemic has (re)taught us something VERY important: work to live, don't live to work.

I thought maybe I'd thread my thoughts on that, so here we go.
#HowToHuman
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Y'all, the work habits of Americans have driven me crazy for years now. I've lost count of how many 60-80 hour a week workers I've talked into toning it down.

"If you're always working how can you enjoy the fruits of your labor?"
2/
And the worst part about it is we've been brainwashed into overworking. Corps have told us since the invention of TV that we're less than if we don't have an extra car, or a too big house. All this enriches THEM, not us.

Yet we keep working our asses off for them.
3/
Before the crash I was an office guy, answering the phone at home, emails after dinner, etc.

In other words I was working 24/7 like the rest of the professional world. Corps WANT us on call day & night.

US workers are so much more productive because we never stop working.
4/
Work life balance matter y'all, and I ain't talking about once a year vacations, or a few minutes a day in nature.

We're so very lucky to live in the time we do: for almost all of human history working ourselves into an early grave was the norm, and necessary.
5/
But humans don't live in that world anymore thankfully. We've an opportunity to live like the rich always have: with leisure time.

Don't make the mistake of missing that time, don't work yourself so hard you don't know your family.

Rich people know this and always have.
6/
It seems to me the question nobody asks themselves anymore is "do I NEED that?" And I'm not talking about just stuff. Do you need that promotion or do you want it? What extra garbage comes from that promotion?

I'd wager the answer is more emails & phone calls at home.
7/
Besides, a promotion means more money, which means more stuff, which means more worries. Why do that to yourself? Because corps have convinced you more stuff means more prestige?

I call BS on that: stuff is transient.

Only the already rich benefit from that.
8/
So downsize y'all. Get rid of the stuff you don't need, and live life instead of working constantly. Take the time to see things and DO things.

Because if you don't, on your deathbed all you'll see is your office.
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12 May
The Virginia GOP just nominated for governor the hedge fund billionaire ex CEO of The Carlyle Group, who personally hosted Osama Bin Laden's brother at a gala dinner on September 11, 2001.

Because they're the party of "patriots" & the "working class."
The best part about it? They had a train wreck of a primary designed to weed out the trumpies so this guy could win. He played on about "election integrity," but that's the old white supremacist dog whistle party line anyway.
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They had a "drive through" primary and required all sorts of numbers and signatures from their primary voters, information which the actual base refused to give, basically en masse.

"Election integrity."
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That Howie Long commercial where everything breaks when he sits on it is kind of the story of my life. Nothing is made for tall & large people.

If you're a few inches over/under the average you spend a lifetime reaching or bending over.
And just fyi, when I'm asked to reach something for someone short I always, always do it. And with a smile to boot.
My mother also agrees noth7ng is made for tall people: at a mere 4'11" & 98lbs she gave birth to a 10lb me.

Ponder that: I weighed over 1/10th of her body weight.

Whoa.
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So redistricting season is almost upon us and in light of the #WeThePeopleAct I thought maybe a primer on gerrymandering might be in order.

Unusually for me we're not gonna do a ton of history here, I just think it's important for folks to know some of the process.
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In a nutshell the Constitutionally mandated census is how we figure out how many seats each party gets in Congress, & the state houses.

This process used to be pretty anodyne until MA passed a law in 1812 that entrenched the Democratic-Republican party's power in the state.
2/
The governor of MA at the time, Elbridge Gerry, signed this bill into law against his wishes, yet he has been attached to this highly undemocratic process ever since. There was blame cast upon him in every East Coast paper at the time.

Perhaps you've seen this old cartoon?
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I'm of the opinion that history will determine Reagan killed the GOP.

He made them hate their own government and normalized lying.
Don't believe me?

Reagan killed:
-the fairness doctrine
-antitrust law
-unions
-the social safety net
-trust in government
-separation of powers
-respect for poor folks
-bipartisanship
-fair taxation
-TRUTH

The list goes on, but most importantly he was a rabid racist to boot.
Think about this for a second: The Iran/Contra scandal.

The reason it was scandal is because Reagan ignored the duly passed laws of Congress regarding executive powers and war. He didn't think Congress should have the power to reign him in. He just ignored them.

Sound familiar?
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I spent two hours yesterday disabusing my 22 year old son of the notion of "alpha male."

It was EXHAUSTING but I'm pretty sure I got through to him.
#ParentingNeverStops
This "alpha male" BS is being peddled on YouTube & in podcasts as self help.

When my boy said "red pill/blue pill" I about lost my damn mind.
At one point I said to him, "So I'm am ex army Ranger and a war vet. Would you consider me an alpha male?"

Him: Of course!

Me: Well I don't.

Him: What!?! Why?

Me: Because that shit doesn't exist. Those assholes are weak minded men. Stop listening to them or you'll die alone.
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White Supremecy Everywhere
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White folks, we need to talk. There's a white supremacy problem in this nation that goes far beyond Nazis & the KKK. It's not all men in camo playin' cosplay soldier.

And to illustrate this, I'm going to tell my story.
1/
Because the true, cold hard reality is this: all white people are white supremacists in some way, or have been. You may think you're not, but I bet you've done things to belittle a non white person and not known it.

Looking back, I sure have. And that's not easy to write.
2/
Now before we get going I want to discuss terminology a bit. I'm choosing to use white supremacy for two reasons. One is because it carries more weight. It IS associated with Nazis and the like.

But the more important reason is because of the word "racist."
3/
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