Wrath of Khan is a great movie for a few reasons. First of all it has two interesting themes: Kirk confronting aging and having to face a no win situation for the first time in his life. His whole career he escaped situations that seemed impossible and won.
It’s also realistic about the capability of its actors. We don’t have middle aged and elderly men running around fist fighting. Hell, Kirk and Khan are never in the same room the entire movie. It’s a film that’s bigger than the TV series but still not absurd.
It’s surprising how little time Khan and Kirk spend interacting, and it’s good that they don’t. It’s delightful to watch Montalban chew scenery opposite a surprisingly restrained Shatner, but a little goes a long way.
Kirk spends most of the film in pursuit of Khan, reacting to things he’s done. He’s this larger than life threat that looms over the film. It’s so much better than Kirk and Khan having a fist fight in an exploding ship. Instead you watch Khan’s hate consume him.
Khan is so convinced of his own superiority he never sees his fate coming. Similarly Kirk is so convinced he can escape consequences he never foresees the tragedies he endures. Arrogance is the undoing of both of them at different scales.
The final battle is slow. There are only a few shots fired. It’s about who can outmaneuver the other, two nearly fatally wounded ships limping along. Two men so arrogant they both nearly die trying to beat the other. Fantastic.
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At one point I thought it would be funny to go to Roswell. Not because I think aliens have crashed here (I don’t), but because I wanted to see the kind of people who go to Roswell. I’m not sure it was a good used of my time to spend nine hours in the car ironically.
Everything on the town is alien themed. It’s kind of funny at quirky at first but it wears thin in a hurry. Like, I get it. If aliens landed and needed car insurance they’d talk to you, Duane.
Even the Walmart is alien themed. I stopped by to pick up a computer part I needed and some local teens correctly identified us as tourists and were making fun of us for visiting, which is an interesting flex when you think about it.
one of the most important skills you can learn as a child is how to take risks, especially socially. childhood is the time to experiment with trying things when the stakes are low, learning to deal with rejection and disappointment, and honing social skills for life.
growing up with anxious parents makes this much more challenging. i’m curious how much of my struggles with self image can be traced back to my mother’s own risk aversion and the way she projected it onto me.
for instance when i was a kid i wasn’t allowed to learn how to ride a bike or play sports. she’d either openly forbid me or try to convince me i might get hurt and embarrass myself. the threat of embarrassment was a frequent boogeyman used to keep me in line.
People have asked for the story here. I don’t think it’s super interesting but what the hell. I met her on OKC right before the pandemic started. She apparently decided we were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend after my first message to her, which doesn’t seem very normal.
Our first date went really well! I took her out for shabu-shabu. When she walked up I was like oh no she’s much too pretty to be on a date with me, but I made her laugh and the conversation was very easy, and she asked for another date.
The second date was better than the first. There was one weird moment where she claimed my dermatologist was trying to give me skin cancer to make more money, but I brushed my concerns aside because she’s gorgeous and I’m male.