Following my thread about FG I began contacting people to try and speak to someone to FG about a waiting period and last night I spoke to @FindaGrave and this is what's coming.
*NOTE* In this thread is only what I've been told in an email, it may change. 1/
So first things first:
"When a Find a Grave member creates a memorial for a person who has died recently, we'll ask if they are related. If they are, they can create a memorial that will look and act just like other Find a Grave memorials on the site... 2/
If the person who creates the memorial is not related, for the first three months we'll show the memorial in a limited form (to discourage duplication) and family members will be able to assume management of the memorial, if they would like to, without requesting it from the... 3
manager. From 4-12 months from the death date, the memorial will look and act like a normal memorial, but a family member will still be able to assume management without requesting it from the manager. After a year, the memorial will be treated like any other memorial on... 4/
...After a year, the memorial will be treated like any other memorial on the site."
Now while this may not be a waiting period it is rectified by a no nonsense transfer process. But the main thing is that something is being done of sorts. While this isn't what most were... 5/
...expecting (please kindly note that this is from FindaGrave directly...) But what made me happy reading this was seeing that there is some hope for those who are continuously denied rights of management to those related to it. Now I don't know when this is being rolled... 6/
out as a final version but all I know is this: "We are about ready to start testing what we've built with a variety of folks from long-time Find a Grave members to people who don't use the site." Also if anyone has any things they'd like me to ask, please DM me!
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To clarify the largely asked questions (read full thread) "How will FG know if the person is related?" - I got this from Peter Drinkwater at @FindaGrave who I hadn't mentioned in my original post. Apologies for confusion - this is what I received... [1/]
"On the question of how to make sure someone is related, it’s a good question and one of the trickier parts of the change. We’ve thought about and have plans for it, but will need to watch it carefully. Our plans focus on limiting the number of relationships someone can... [2/]
...claim, so while there will surely be some cases of people claiming to be a relative when they are not, it shouldn’t be an avenue for significant abuse or for people to accumulate large numbers of memorials to manage which we hope will be a disincentive to abuse. We’ll.. [3/6]
One thing I want to try and achieve is to help improve the genealogy community and industry as a whole. And a major thing I want to improve on is FindaGrave. You might think "here he goes on his rant again" but hear me out... [1/15]
While FindaGrave has proved to be an invaluable tool for family historians and genealogists all around the world seeing headstones of ancestors or relations that are very far away. (For example me being in Ireland and having relatives buried in New York)... [2/15]
It has also proved to be a place that brings uncalled distress and bitterness. The culprit? Impatience and a competition to increase people's stats. If you had been previously unaware of this @Ancestry, I invite you to read this thread... [3/15]
Okay, this is going to be the start of a humongous thread! Below are the links to lists of genealogists that are able to do genealogy research (and other bits!) in different countries. Think of it as a directory of genealogists! Please feel free to refer people to this list!
If you're looking to research your Irish heritage (the only list I'm in!) find Irish genealogists below: twitter.com/i/lists/129210…