Of all the things living for years with undiagnosed ADHD robbed me of, the ability to read for long periods of time is one I miss the most. I'm slowly relearning this skill, but do other ADHDers have advice on this?
(If you don't have ADHD do not offer advice please)
I've had some success with reading only at night, when I'm tired enough that the chaos in my brain has subsided a bit. But this unfortunately limits the amount I can think critically about my readings.
Also helpful has been reminding myself that just because my brain works differently doesn't mean it works *wrong*. Learning to be patient with myself rather than frustrated with myself has been huge.
Taking processing breaks when I reach a stopping point (even a new paragraph, etc) has been super helpful as well and has helped me retain information much better rather than simply trying to force it.
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This may be an unexpected perspective, but I genuinely love having ADHD. I love the connections it allows me to see. I love the deep emotional connections it allows me to have. I love the energy it gives me, and the passion.
The majority of the time I spend struggling with ADHD isn't struggling with ADHD itself -- but struggling with living in a world that treats the way my brain works as being "wrong" instead of simply different.
The more I carve out my own space in the world, and the more I make intentional space for my neurodivergence, the more I love it and can learn to love myself, with my ADHD being an inseparable part of my person.
White people in general need to be much more careful about labeling someone "the first" to do or be anything, because the truth is we absolutely don't know. This reinforces the myth that only white/western institutions have value or legacy worth preserving.
It's very unlikely that anyone recent enough for us to know their name is "the first" to study or do something or gain meaningful knowledge about a subject. It's much more likely that they were simply the first to be accepted as an expert by Western colonial institutions.
For instance, I just saw a tweet describing Mary Anning as "the first" female paleontologist. Peoples all over the world have been fascinated with fossils for time immemorial. We must ask ourselves, why does Mary Anning get cited as the first? The answer is colonialism.
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A lot of why I run this account, with as much honesty as I can muster, is because I truly believe that by being openly and passionately myself, I can help humanize trans people against the literal armies of those who want to dehumanize us.
I make myself vulnerable, often to those exact people who want to dehumanize and villify me, in order to show you that trans people are real. We aren't a hashtag, or a wedge issue, or a fetish. We're living, breathing human beings, with hopes and fears and lives we live.
I try to keep this account positive. I try to showcase trans joy, and success, and how much love trans people have to give.
But I'm afraid.
We're all so, so afraid.