Today is #NationalComingOutDay, and I've been waiting all year to discuss some thoughts. I hate National Coming Out Day. 🧵
There are a few reasons why but the biggest is this: coming out day places all the responsibility on the queer person to come out, and none of the responsibility on cishet people to do better.
So if you're queer - I see you and I value you, whether you're out or not. You don't owe anyone information on your gender or sexuality. It's not "lying". Please don't feel pressure to come out until you're ready, really ready. I promise it's okay to wait if you're afraid.
If you're cishet - on this Coming Out Day I want you to think long and hard about why coming out is so emphasized. Why are queer people only valued when we make ourselves hypervisible (even when doing so is dangerous)? Why is it important for cishets that we identify ourselves?
Why is coming out day about queer people outing themselves rather than about how our community can be better supported? Why is our visibility more important to allies than our safety?
This coming out day, I don't want you to encourage people to come out. Instead, I want you to work to make a world that is safe to be out in - and then be patient. No one, absolutely no one, owes it to you to be out to you. No one owes it to anyone to be out.
Queer visibility is not more valuable than queer safety or queer lives. Being visible is dangerous, and a choice that can only be made carefully and by the individual. There is no shame in protecting yourself.
This is not to say being out is bad, or coming out is bad. But this must be an individual decision made without peer pressure, especially not the kind of peer pressure so commonly exhibited in Coming Out Day.
So queer people - whoever you are, whether you're out, or coming out, or closeted, or intend to stay closeted - you count. You are part of this community. You deserve love, safety, and chances to thrive.
We'll keep fighting to make the world a better place to be queer in. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
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Happy (early) Halloween! To continue with my series on bats, today we'll be talking about the sociology and biology of the spookiest bat of all - the vampire bat.
Part of the reason bats are so associated with Halloween is because the Victorian English public became aware of many varieties of bat with nose and ear fringes at the same time as Halloween was gaining popularity.
While we now know that these features are primarily used to channel sound for echolocation, Victorian European naturalists were frightened by these features and believed they indicated bloodsucking tendencies.
Happy Early Halloween! 👻 Earlier this week, we talked about the diversity, social context, and adaptations of bats! For today's science thread, I'd like to zoom in on one particular species and one particular threat to that species. If you live in North America, listen up! 🧵🦇
Myotis lucifugus is a nondescript little bat. Its common name is even "little brown bat", and it is perhaps a bat that most fits the archetype of what we think of when we hear the word "bat". But these little guys are a lot more impressive than they look!
These bats were some of the most successful in North America, with a range from coast to coast and from Central Mexico to Alaska! This is a huge range of different biomes they have learned to survive and thrive in!
Happy (early) Halloween! For today's science thread, let's talk about bats. More specifically, let's talk about the incredible diversity and adaptations of bats. 🦇🧵
Most people are aware that bats are to be found most places where people can be found, but many people don't realize that bats occupy almost every biome and habitat on earth. From rainforests to deserts to plains to taiga - you'll find bats.
Many people also think of "bats" as one animal, when in fact, there are over 1,400 identified species (so far)! It's estimated that bats alone may make up 1/5th of all mammal species, making them one of the most successful groups of mammals currently.
Not nearly enough attention has been paid to how the media this year has reported on trans issues - openly hosting TERFs as reputable sources, constantly painting trans people as a threat rather than a vulnerable minority, and refusing to center trans voices on our own lives.
In retrospect it will be obvious how this sort of reporting was an intentional and transphobic choice. In retrospect this treatment will be considered highly immoral.
But in the meantime, trans people are dying.
Trans people aren't that many. The highest estimates place us at about 5% of the total population. This means that we are especially dependent on allyship for survival.
Allies; you are failing us.
This may be an unexpected perspective, but I genuinely love having ADHD. I love the connections it allows me to see. I love the deep emotional connections it allows me to have. I love the energy it gives me, and the passion.
The majority of the time I spend struggling with ADHD isn't struggling with ADHD itself -- but struggling with living in a world that treats the way my brain works as being "wrong" instead of simply different.
The more I carve out my own space in the world, and the more I make intentional space for my neurodivergence, the more I love it and can learn to love myself, with my ADHD being an inseparable part of my person.