Thread by @NomaDzino

Seeing the tweets under #My1stSexualExperienceWas is so sad. We need holistic sex education beyond the biology & telling girls to keep their legs closed so they don’t get pregnant. Centuries ago we had initiation schools for girls & boys to prepare them for adulthood.

In my opinion, we should teach children about all the dimensions of the human being & the joys & sorrows of having sex with the wrong people. Sexual pleasure is a gift to be shared by two people who love each other, not given by one & taken by the other.

Beyond the purpose of procreation, which is the physical purpose of sexual intercourse, it creates emotional & spiritual connections between the partners. The reason is that a human baby is totally defenseless at birth unlike other animals. It needs a mother’s & father’s care.

Contrary to popular belief, science has proven that the human brain stops developing at ages 28-29. That’s why you’re a different person at 30 from when you were 20. However humans are sexual beings from birth so experimentation by touching themselves is completely normal.

Sexual intercourse requires & releases a tremendous amount of energy. It’s the reason why you’re invariably tired afterwards. This is why the workers of darkness use sex magic in various ways to harness that energy for ritual purposes. The person you have sex with can harm you.

This is why you need to cut spiritual ties with someone when you break up, divorce or your partner dies. There are different ways of doing this. Sex isn’t just a physical act. You remain attached to them like the series #Intersexions on a spiritual level. Watch it to understand.

You exchange DNA & are joined in the spirit. You can experience your partner’s traumas but they manifest differently as emotional or mental illness. If your partner is an emotional vampire, they are broken & empty, they have sex with you to feel good & you feel awful.

This is one interpretation of the on being unequally yoked in 2 Corinthians:6 . Sex is pleasurable & fulfilling only you love each other & seek your partner’s pleasure first not not yours. Ephesians 5:22-23 and your partner does the same. Then you don’t need multiple partners.

On the spiritual aspects of sex, the person you have sex with can collect your semen or vaginal fluids & take it to an indigenous healer & all hell will break loose in your life. That’s why the aunties teach women that you should both clean up or wash after sex.

Even more sinister, if your person has multiple partners, any of those partners can harm you with witchcraft through the spiritual ties between them, your person and you. They don’t need anything of yours & can pass curses in the spirit. You have no idea where the attach is from.

*attack*

Sex creates soul ties which make you long for someone even if they treated you badly. It reinforces trauma bonds, that’s why narcissists & other abusers love-bomb you, push you to have sex early in the relationship & are able to abuse you & come back over & over again.

People, men especially boast about how if they’ve had sex with you they can come back for more at any time. This time of Mercury retrograde affects some people more than others, lots of past lovers coming back to test if the bond is still in place to get what they want.

In conclusion, Ladies especially, please be careful whom you have sex with. Ask for discernment. Make sure they feel the same way about you. Avoid casual encounters because you’ll walk away within more than an STI, pregnancy or a broken heart. We need a conversation #GirlsNightIn

Worse than the spiritual attack, if your partner is possessed or affected by demons, they will affect you too. This is why young girls who are sexually abused become promiscuous. It’s older women too. You receive a spirit of lust if your partner had or has multiple partners.

Men need to learn that women need time to be aroused. Most men learn about sex from equally clueless men, movies & porn where the women are just ready to roll at the drop of a hat. This is why for most women sex for the 1st time is painful, traumatic or an anti-climax literally.

Women need to get to know their bodies & what gives them pleasure & tell their partners honestly if something doesn’t feel good p. However exercising agency needs your partner to be one who respects you & doesn’t impose his will on you which is what happens in most relationships.

Society needs to stop slut-shaming women, respect a girls’ & woman’s bodily integrity & not police women’s sexuality with patriarchal norms. The men who rape or demand sex outside marriage are the ones who call you a slut, look for virgins marry, then come back for a booty call.

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