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Years ago, when I sang Titli in Chennai Express, a superstar tagged me and said I sounded like love. If I remember right, it was the first time an actor, anywhere had said anything nice about my singing.
I remember laughing and crying at the same time.
My mother noticed, and put out a long tweet, about everything she observed and a general thank you - because I am not the type to get excited in general for anything at all.
I went to the Chennai Express Audio launch. A person remembered that LOOOONG essay my mother wrote,
...word for word - and asked me to convey his respects to my mother. Cut to a few hours later, I was saying bye, taking leave of everyone, and he said he'll speak to my mother. I thought he was joking and he wasn't. He took my phone, spoke to my mother for some 15 minutes
Made her feel like the most special being in the entire world and returned my phone. Cut to several days later when he came to Chennai - He took the effort to cut across a huge room with people waiting, found my mother and took her blessing by touching her feet.
I will never forget how this man made me feel. How he made my mother feel.
He was such a breath of fresh air and I knew a Superstar like him could be this sincerely, genuinely nice. He did NOT have to be that nice. But he did.
I was and will remain inconsequential in the scheme of things but the brief meeting I had with him is etched in our memory.
Whatever's going on, is beyond my comprehension but I do pray that the difficult times that his family is going through, passes.
Proving a case of sexual assault is such an uphill task that hanging even Nirbhaya's rapists took 10 years.
I hope they find better lawyers and appeal this.
This case mentioned here took 11 years to complete.
"She didn't have to hit him so many times to stop rape"
In Tejpal Case - "Complainant did not behave like victim of sexual assault"
In this Child Rape case, which took 7 years - "The 7 year old child imagined it." The accused, a plumber had Bengaluru's top lawyer representing him. thenewsminute.com/article/rape-7…
How a person (regardless of gender identity) responds when they are assaulted - NOBODY can predict. Even if they're trained in martial arts. Freeze, Fight or Flight. Anything can happen
But women - ALWAYS judged for what we do or don't. Especially in cases of SH.
Infuriating.
3-ish years ago, around Navaratri is when I named my molester. Nothing changed for him. A lot has changed for me.
As I run around with Courts thanks to Mr. Radha Ravi banning me - this I will see to the logical, legal end.
However this image and many such public displays of power by a molester named by 20 women, across various backgrounds, with multiple others vouching 'He is like that only’ shows that molesters will go on with impunity. And they will have all the support they need.
Emotionally I have given up.
I submit all these people, their actions to God - if there is one, because days like this makes me seriously question the existence of any God or Divine Justice in general.
May all the fruit of their actions return to them and theirs.
There was this one post by a doctor that's been doing the rounds on Instagram. This one. And when I re-shared it - the OB-GYNs spoke up on what happens to women in 2021 that give birth to baby girls.
Have been generally chatting on Instagram on the Pink Tax. Women having to pay more for standard stuff.
Example - Razors.
Women’s Razors - over 200/-
Men’s starts at 10/-
1/n
Our TShirts last 10 washes. Men’s T Shirts last 10 years. So long lasting that if you decide to make it a ‘pocha’ and then change your mind to wear it - you *still* could.
2/n
Women’s workout clothes - tight, form fitting and uncomfortable at the crotch. Else you need to pay a bomb.
Thanks for tagging me. @SushilHariIRS
Does your school have an Internal Complaints Commitee?
Is your school POCSO compliant?
Did you have awareness & sensitization sessions with all the teachers, support staff & management?
If so, when?
Who constitutes @SushilHariIRs your ICC unit? Who heads it?
Your school is also a Residential school it seems like.
Do you have a skill built committee in the school? A policy? If so, what is it?
The notice of an ICC / POSCO Unit with contact details must be publicly visible in your school visible to all students. Please prove publicly that it was done.
Were students given training about safe and unsafe touch and whom they were asked to report to? @SushilHariIRS
லீகலா போங்கன்னு கருத்து தெரிக்க விட்டுட்டு இருக்குற மக்களுகக்கு - NCW-ல கேஸ் பதிவு பண்ணி, அவங்க 3 Reminders குடுத்து, ஒரு லேடி Officer வீட்டுக்கு வந்து, எங்கிட்டயும், என் தாயார், என் கணவர், மூன்று பேர் கிட்டயும் கையழுத்துல கம்ப்ளைன்ட வாங்கிட்டு போயாச்சு. 1/
மேடை மேடையா ஏறி திரு ராதா ரவி அவர்கள் என்ன அவமானப்படுத்துனதும் அவசர அவசரமா விசாரணை பண்ணாம என்ன Ban பண்ணது, எதனாலன்னு எல்லாருக்கும் தெரியும். 2/
எனக்கு முன்னாடி இன்னொரு பெண் 'ராதா ரவி வீட்டுக்கு வந்து சந்திச்சா மட்டும்தான் டப்பிங் யூனியன் கார்டு தருவேன்னு சொல்றாரு’ ன்னு Facebookல பதிவு பண்ணுனதுக்கே அவங்கள ban பண்ணுனாரு. 3/