I was a bit surprised when he asked. He isn’t much of a country fan - although he likes all kinds of music.
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Brothers Osborne would be more my kind of thing than his.
About halfway through the show, the stage lights dimmed to a bare spotlight and one of the Brothers, TJ, stepped out into the glare and talked about coming out as gay earlier this year.
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It was brave. It was moving.
His coming out was trailblazing in a genre that remains stubbornly behind.
It invariably means the absolute world to some young fans coming to terms with their own sexuality.
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And up in the last row of the mezzanine were my friend and I.
He is an absolute brother to me. I adore him. My life has been immeasurably improved by having him in it.
He is gay. He came out only recently.
It took him until his late 50s.
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It has been gratifying to see him happy in the full expression of who he is.
It has made me happy to see him out and happy.
It took him decades, in part, because there were no Brothers Osborne back when he was young.
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There was no TJ willing to walk out into the lonely glare of a single spotlight and tell their story.
There was no song on the radio by an out and proud artist written to his younger self - but also to them.
There was no “Younger Me”.
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Beyond the songs and performances, what you’re doing is important and powerful.
Somewhere right now, there is someone listening to “Younger Me” or “21 Summer” feeling seen and understood.
Somewhere, to someone playing you on repeat, you are a lighthouse in a lonely fog.
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It does more to change outcomes for disadvantaged learners than almost any amount of later support could.
I’ve had back-and-forths with people about this before.
“But Headstart is already free for poor families…” they say.
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The federal poverty threshold is so low, in my state, a family could make *double* the amount the government considers poverty-level… and still be in the bottom 20% of incomes.
For many of those families - above the poverty line but struggling - childcare is a hardship.
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In full disclosure, I have never been a fan of S.E. Cupp and may have referred to her as “Sweater-Set Barbie” in the past.
Not to let you all into the working of the cogs and gears that power the Hoarsemind but I felt bad about that.
I felt like I had been maybe too acerbic.
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My initial, read was that Cupp was one of the dilettante-ish little butterflies who flits about as “journalists” while having never lived an honest day in the real world where average people worry and struggle and fear for their survival… and then somehow survive to do it again.
Seriously, I absolutely HATE with the fire of a thousand suns moments like this when I feel a helpless terror at just how asleep a ton of people are as the flames rise.
There is no task on Twitter more thankless than telling people who hate fighting that they need to fight.
I haven’t felt this much “Yelling at the screen during a horror movie” anxiety since 2015 when people weren’t hearing how much of danger Trump’s narcissism posed.
Folks, we have one year left to stave off the death of our democracy.