Some men think they can't be infertile because they ejaculate. Some see it as a shame that they are infertile and so they cover the truth and the ignorant wen thinks it is her fault. Some women hide the truth about being infertile because she wants to marry and remain married.
So the guilty party keeps quiet while their partner is hoping from pillar to post praying and seeking alternative solutions.
I advise that partners do test before marriage to know they are okay and if problems ensue in marriage, they should do another test.
Do one with your trusted doctor, another at partner's doctor and last one at mutually agreed place.
The reason is that people tend to pick a place where they can manipulate the result with doctor friends. If all 3 results don't tally, somebody is lying.
Also, learn to do DNA test too. Some women know the man is sterile but the man doesn't know this.
Because she wants to remain married, she goes outside to get pregnant and dump it on him. Thatbdecision is selfish. It is not your call to make.
If you want to quit, please do. If you want tonremain married, tell him the truth. Font dump foreign children on your husband.
Humans cannot and should never be trusted and this is why younshould do test.
"I trust my wife/husband" is for judgement day when Jesus is the bride of the Church. Please do test and know the truth. Marriage does not confer honesty on anybody.
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I don't think the lady should have deleted the video. However, there are nuances attached to these thing. Most ladies into transactional sex are not as proud or shameless as they project. Exposing her like that must have brought shame to her and her love ones/guardians.
We talk a lot about actions and consequences but people prefer delusions because delusions are comforting. It is fine if you want to prostitute but please ensure you can stand the heat that comes with living in this clime if publicly ousted.
While there is no pride in prostitution, they form a big part of the society. They render an underrated service for which demand is always high.
Once again, this shows that men and women will never be judged the same way.
The replies under the romantic exchange with Ada were not uncommon and frankly, not unexpected. I have seen similar responses under my old tweets when I am being light hearted.
Dickson focus, we are losing a patriarchy king, so you can be romantic?
Comments like this reinforces the perception that I am this stonewall, tough, unemotional person and it is why some ladies think I am unapproachable or look like someone who doesn't give to relate with women.
I have stated consistently that Masculinity and Patriarchy is not hate for women. It is not a fight against women. It is practically impossible to hate the other gender you share the world with and it is stupid to even think of doing so.
They say a life of love will have some thorns but a life without love will have no roses. At the risk of being pricked, can I hold on to you as my rose in thorny sides. I don't mean to emotionally waterboard you but you arouse my intellect as well as my loins.
I promise to always look at you through rose coloured glasses and course-correct you with kisses when you're being knuckle headed. You have been the entire point of my life and the only time I have seen you angry is when you should have been angrier.
The only women I'll love more than you would call you mummy. I promise to keep to our deal of picking each bother from the airports. Even if love takes in a new meaning, I promise to spell it with your name. I promise never to stop kissing your forehead every morning.
Without you, I'm like an abandoned dog on the side of a highway. I have gift anxiety, even though I don't know your birthday. We can spend perfect days cooking and shopping together. I will write you real letters and send Daffodils when world apart.
I promise to always say YES when you ask "is my hair looking good tonight?" If your favourite colour is black, I will never point out that a red gown on you would make Venus jealous. I promise to cook you dinner every Friday and go to you your favourite places on our anniversary.
If I've never called you beautiful, it was because you look better than my compliment. I pledge to bring a whole new meaning to the world cannodle. I promised my mama that I'm not gonna settle for anything less than the best and if you say yes, thennI think I've kept my promise.
The comments is filled with people echoing this. Frankly, I don't trust people that say this and the primary reason is that it is UNTRUE. No matter how much you say it, it will never be true.
I've never slept with another woman while in a relationship....
You people are too privilege on this app. You are far from the bite of poverty.
"No matter what" is a privileged statement. When I say people have excuse for going into crime, it basically means the action is wrong but I can understand why they did it.
I guess if you've been thrown out by Landlord, watch your dad embarrassed by debtors, seen your mom die cos you couldn't afford drugs, watch sister sleep with hunger aftwr hawking oranges and unable to go to school - the realities of millions - you'll understand better.
Countries are intentional about job creation because they understand that the human nature to survive will always surpass morality and law. No one cares about death sentence when inability to afford 20k drugs is killing their siblings.