These are ignorance passed down and promoted by Nollywood but we are the most educated generation. We ant really feign ignorance of the truth.

Men can be infertile. Women can be infertile. But humans are generally dishonest and so we have an eternal battle with the truth.
Some men think they can't be infertile because they ejaculate. Some see it as a shame that they are infertile and so they cover the truth and the ignorant wen thinks it is her fault. Some women hide the truth about being infertile because she wants to marry and remain married.
So the guilty party keeps quiet while their partner is hoping from pillar to post praying and seeking alternative solutions.
I advise that partners do test before marriage to know they are okay and if problems ensue in marriage, they should do another test.

Do one with your trusted doctor, another at partner's doctor and last one at mutually agreed place.
The reason is that people tend to pick a place where they can manipulate the result with doctor friends. If all 3 results don't tally, somebody is lying.

Also, learn to do DNA test too. Some women know the man is sterile but the man doesn't know this.
Because she wants to remain married, she goes outside to get pregnant and dump it on him. Thatbdecision is selfish. It is not your call to make.

If you want to quit, please do. If you want tonremain married, tell him the truth. Font dump foreign children on your husband.
Humans cannot and should never be trusted and this is why younshould do test.

"I trust my wife/husband" is for judgement day when Jesus is the bride of the Church. Please do test and know the truth. Marriage does not confer honesty on anybody.

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29 Oct
I don't think the lady should have deleted the video. However, there are nuances attached to these thing. Most ladies into transactional sex are not as proud or shameless as they project. Exposing her like that must have brought shame to her and her love ones/guardians.
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I've never slept with another woman while in a relationship....
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It is easier to convince yourself about a lie (your partner is the most attractive) than to teach yourself discipline and responsibility.
This is why many of you jump on that convenient lie.

A friend once asked me and I quote:

Everyone looks up to your relationship and admires how you love and treat your babe. Do you think she is the prettiest lady?

Me: No, she isn't.
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