Thread by @Wizarab10

The comments is filled with people echoing this. Frankly, I don't trust people that say this and the primary reason is that it is UNTRUE. No matter how much you say it, it will never be true.

I've never slept with another woman while in a relationship....

https://twitter.com/adaobowo1/status/1444609161002733569

This is not because my babe is the prettiest woman but because I am committed to her, I pledged to do right by her and I am disciplined.

It is easier to convince yourself about a lie (your partner is the most attractive) than to teach yourself discipline and responsibility.

This is why many of you jump on that convenient lie.

A friend once asked me and I quote:

Everyone looks up to your relationship and admires how you love and treat your babe. Do you think she is the prettiest lady?

Me: No, she isn't.

Him: Do you think there are better ladies out there? You know there are many fishes in the river.

Me: Very possible. But she is amazing. No doubt there are many fishes in the river & probably better but I like my fish. She is mine and that is what matter. I am committed to her.

What you need to develop is a sense of responsibility and commitment towards your partner. You chose them and so you have to respect them and respect the relationship. You don't have to lie about them being the most attractive person.

Relationship doesn't kill attraction for others. Commitment, respect for your partner and the relationship and a sense of responsibility is what would stop you from doing the unseemly.

In extending this thread, let me say that some of the values you project are your problems.

- Men are polygamous in nature

Maybe they are, maybe they are not. I cannot prove it but personal discipline will determine the respect you accord to your partner. Even a polygamous person can be irresponsible.
Polygamy should not be an excuse to be indiscipline. Be responsible

- Premium Pussy

This is just another excuse for irresponsibility. Interesting how your partner can miraculously be the most attractive person but their private part cannot be the most premium. There is no premium pussy anywhere, you just don't have control over your sex life.

I did mention earlier in the week that the best sex I had, I told the babe I didn't want to see her again. Coincidentally, I was her best sex and she was tearfully pleading for a relationship.

The point was simple, no woman would hold power of sex over me.

The same reason, I don't refer to emotional attraction as love. Love is intentional. It is not being a mumu. If my relationship end, the energy moves to the next person. I am not destroyed because I was loving intentionally not unexplainably as a mumu.

This is why, I can put a stop to it immediately if you choose to misbehave. There is nothing supernatural about you that made me do what I did. That was all me. I am always in control of my actions.

The greatest gift you will give to your family is discipline/responsibility.

You have to honour and respect your family - the woman you married because you are her home. You have to do it for your children because you are their first mentor and perception of masculinity.

Masculinity is leadership. Leadership is responsibility. You owe that to family.

I know I am responding to a woman but I tailored my response to men because the world will be a better place with more responsible men. Moreover, a woman can only dishonour and disrespect you if you allow her.

Meanwhile, the thread applies to both gender.

Yes, I shortened the thread intentionally. I had other things to write but maybe some other times.

As always, Peace, Love and Spaghetti 🍷.