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Here are quotes by German men from the thread. German legal "sex" buying is one of the most shameful things my country is currently tolerating. We didn't criminalize paying to rape trafficking victims until 2017 (and have had 0 convictions since). ImageImageImage
It is really important that we come to understand that prostitution and sex trafficking are not separate AT ALL. They happen frequently in the same locations, women are advertised on the same websites and the same men purchase access to (and commit rape against) both groups.
Its impossible to legislate on prostitution without affecting sex trafficking & vice versa as Germany poignantly illustrates: If the man who pays is just a "client" then our law held for the longest time he can't be held accountable for the "service providers" circumstances.
German law pretends that #prostitution is a "job" and that mentality enables the pretence that a man not noticing that the woman he is touching and penetrating is being raped is the same thing as a woman not noticing the woman who paints her nails at the nail salon is trafficked.
Legal sex buying breeds the mentality that once a man has paid, his obligations to a woman end. Whether she's in any kind of distress - financial, emotional, physical, violent - he is off the hook, in his mind, in the mind of much of society and for the longest time even the law.
And since we criminalized paid rape of trafficking victims in Germany we had 0 convictions. Cause how would you prove he knew? She isn't going to go to authorities either because unless she has ample evidence to them she's just a "black market sex worker" who needs to be deported
People who advocate or support legal sex buying, brothel-keeping, etc. always shout about how the law would not affect trafficking statutes. It's blatantly untrue. It narrows the definition of pimping to an extreme. It erases the man who pays to rape the trafficking victim.
Not even touching how legal sex buying increases demand for prostitution which due to lack of volunteers can only be satisfied through coercion and trafficking. But mostly it means every sex buyer is an ethical "client" until proven otherwise (and every pimp an ethical "manager")
Sex buyers and pimps love German #prostitution law. And since we did wake up a little bit and realize maybe a deregulated sex industry is a bad idea, the little bit of adjusting we did do in 2017 (some of which is harmful to women so I don't endorse it) led them to shout for...
...something more like the New Zealand model which is closer to the German model prior to 2017. In NZ they haven't convicted a single trafficker since the law came into force in 2003 (nvm the paying rapists) - a glaring omission from the list of supposed successes the law has had
Here's a report clearly outlining the issue with legal sex buying, brothel-keeping etc. and the connection to sex trafficking (and lack of protections for women newly assigned "worker" status but without many meaningful worker's rights): catwinternational.org/wp-content/upl…
Here's a project similar to the one I'm running for Germany that collects sex buyer quotes from New Zealand and Australia: instagram.com/actual_john_qu…
There's a lot more to say, for now: Sex buyers and pimps want a legal sex trade with minimal regulation. That's precisely what the global "sex work" movement is advocating. How can a law endorsed by the most likely rapists and killers of women be in the interest of their victims?

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5 Nov
Don't understand how Western academics studying global south women & kids exploited by "sex tourists" aren't embarrassed when they argue that these groups are "constructed as vulnerable". Socioeconomic power, white and male privilege are real everywhere - except here apparently🤡
Reading an article by a Candian "feminist" researcher interviewing women in Brazil, inc. favela communities, concluding that they're going through a "moral panic" and that really white men aren't doing any particular harm when they purchase access to women from these communities.
This Canadian "feminist" researcher is crying that women in Rio Grande do Norte, Brazil who organized massed anti-rape protests were against "sex tourism" & had slogans like "We scream that we are women and not World Cup souvenirs, that we are women and not commodities." The gall
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"Porn consumption is an individual choice"="drug consumption is an individual choice". Without making an exact equation (cause women are not dead substances) there can be severe adverse effects on other people in your environment and there often are during the production process.
Like porn doesn't drop from the sky. It has to be made. There's usually at least 1 other person behind the camera. Often a whole team. Often there's a pimp involved. Then there are the distributors. You realize this about drugs (I hope) - you have to understand the same for porn.
If you smoke weed ur cousin grew on a balcony- don't care. If you're consuming drugs distributed by organized crime - there's tangible ethical concern. If you read erotica ur friend wrote - don't care. If you're consuming porn, you cannot be sure smn wasn't traumatized to make it
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15 months probation for 🇩🇪 man who ran illegal brothel advertising 3 women on a legal prostitution website. 1 woman was a rejected asylum seeker whom he forced to be raped by 42 men. 1 woman says she chose to be there. 1 was too terrified to speak in court. 15. Months. Probation.
Tell me again how prostitution & trafficking are totally separate when women are advertised on the SAME websites & are in the SAME brothels (thats assuming the woman who says she chose to sell sex next to the trafficking victim really did and isn't speaking from a place of fear).
Sexual torture of women and girls in Germany gets you less than 5 years prison time or just probation. We have a long track record of this: Other perpetrators seeing these sentences are relaxing while victims get the message that reporting is pointless.
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I dont care to be polite here: The actual brain worms of liberal feminism. I discuss #surrogacy disproportionately exploiting impoverished "third world" women, interfering with their bodily autonomy & sometimes killing them and the response is "you don't respect women's choices".
Replace surrogacy with the sale of kidneys and you see exactly how insane and neoliberal you sound. Poor people are not wealthier peoples organ farms. Poor women are not baby farms. The small numbers of altruistic surrogates carry many of the same severe medical risks ffs.
Where the comparison falls apart is that of course people give kidneys to loved ones. But this is when people are DYING. Nobody is dying from lack of genetic children. Genetic children are not a right when it requires the use of someone else's body.
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Online you can see white wealthy "sex" tourists posting images of themselves with Asian women on their laps. The women frown in every picture, the men gleeful, cause they can act like brutal kings by virtue of their wealth that came in part from not letting her country up for air
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I don't recall where I read this, but the #surrogacy story of a famous rich single man managing to exploit three different women just came back to me vividly: First the egg donor, then the "surrogate" mother and finally the nanny, because he's not doing the childcare...
Egg donors tend to be chosen for genetics, so they're catalogued to genetic father by looks, intelligence, family health history. They're usually poor university students who need money to keep studying. Egg donation carries significant medical risks incl. infertility and death.
Women who do modern surrogacy (where the baby is not genetically related to them, back in the day surrogacy also meant prostitution to/rape by the genetic father) also strongly tend to be marginalized. The industry likes to outsource this "job" to women in impoverished countries.
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