honestly, when there was all the talk about the ways in which men gaslight their wives without even understanding what they're doing 7-8 years ago, this same strategy came up:
Basically, each time someone does something that you've asked them to stop doing, you have to treat it as a completely new, fresh instance with no pattern behind it, because if you don't, then you're dwelling in the past and can't move on and are unforgiving
so they get to keep doing it forever, because as long as they apologize, you have to forget
and if you don't forget, if you point out that what they're doing is a pattern, you become at fault for holding grudges, being unforgiving, never letting things go
and if you don't forget, if you point out that what they're doing is a pattern, you become at fault for holding grudges, being unforgiving, never letting things go
And Christians engage in this on a macro scale (so do white people, of course, in regards to racism):
*I* didn't personally do it, and it happened in the past, so if you bring up the history of Christian genocide, forced conversion, colonialism, etc. you are treating me unfairly
*I* didn't personally do it, and it happened in the past, so if you bring up the history of Christian genocide, forced conversion, colonialism, etc. you are treating me unfairly
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