Thread by @Wizarab10

Within the home, leadership is gendered. A man must govern the house irrespectiveof who earns more. The problem with this generation is that we are money obsessed but money is not the value on which a home a built. Money is for bills and comfort.

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Family values is the most important value in building a home. There is no personal income in marriage irrespectiveof who earns more. All income are family income and should be expended in the best interest of the home.

As a man, you have to govern your home financially, spiritually, emotionally, making decisions in the best interest of family, sacrificing yourself for the benefit of wife and kids, loving and treating your wife right, raising Godly children on your personal and spiritual values

Being accountable to the woman you made a vow to, setting g good examples for your kids, building a good family image that your children would live to honour, protecting the family from danger.
Beyond the flimsy attractions of money and what money can buy, a home is more.

It is a woman's duty to submit and work in synergy to build the home with her husband. The arguments over submission are usually pointless because you shouldn't marry a man you can't submit to, a man you can't respect and trust to act in the best interest of his wife and kids.

Now, submission does not entail long-suffering and enduring abuse. It doesn't mean servant-master relationship. It basically means respecting the man as the head of the house as Christ is the head if the church to serve in your best interest.

Marriage is team work.

Leadership on the man's part is not authoritarianism. It is not a pass to do wrong and be unaccountable. It is gross responsibility to the home.

If marriage is founded on money the presence of money or lack of it can equally bring it down.

Build your home on real values and human relationship.

Peace, Love and Spaghetti 🍷