The mother decides whether the siblings are close or not... based on whether she teaches them to love each other through the way she loves them, or whether she chooses to teach separation consciousness, by loving them separately & differently...
Separationist consciousness is also usually born of the mother. If she regularly pitted the siblings together or enjoyed favouritism for the way it centred her? You’re far more likely to be the outcast of the group or struggle making connections with others later in life.
Your mind is built for separation & distrust beloved & you need to be able to work on & heal through that.. Many of your connections will feel thwarted unless/until you do.
It started there.
Address it there.
It started there.
Address it there.
let’s say, you have 4 siblings. If the mother shows love to all of the siblings and reinforces for the siblings to love one another, protect each other & help each other & shows them that there’s unity between them all.. they will grow to love each other.
If the mother has a favourite ‘golden child’ and a problematic (black sheep child), she will pit them against each other & any of the children in the middle will either side with the black sheep, or cling to the golden child in hopes some of that favour will rub off on them
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