We want to get fit, but what does that even mean?
We want to feel fulfilled, but what does that even mean?
The more vague a goal we set, the likelier it is that we will procrastinate.
Set small, quantifiable, achievable goals.
10. The result is far, far away!
Goes back to pt 1 above.
When the result is far away, it becomes hard to understand how our work today will get us there.
We think we still have time!
Break down the journey into smaller milestones.
Pause at each milestone, celebrate, reflect.
11. It is not authentically us
We procrastinate that thing the most which does not come naturally to us. That forces us to become someone else to complete it.
Here is the harsh truth
You will never be motivated to do anything that is not naturally you!
Procrastination isn't always a bad word.
I know enough folks who deliver well under pressure.
Their choice to procrastinate stems from their self-awareness.
But not everyone is self-aware.
It baffles me how many of us do not understand the reasons behind their procrastination.
My approach towards solving a problem is to fall in love with the problem as against the solution.
"What is it that I am trying to solve here?"
The deeper I understand the problem, the clearer the solution becomes.
This list is such an attempt.
Incase you haven't already, do consider watching this masterful talk by Tim Urban @waitbutwhy
You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.
- Martin Luther King Jr.
Every Friday, I write a thread on failure, personal productivity, entrepreneurship and life lessons.
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Audio captures not just the thoughts but also our emotions at that moment.
Which is super helpful, when we hear it again in the future.
Bonus: Start the voice note with "I am recording this while I was doing..."
Context helps.
2. Pomodoro Technique
A time management technique that's proven to maximize productivity and attention.
Break your day into 25min chunks followed by a 5min break (this 30min unit is called Pomodoro).
After about 4 pomodoros, take a longer break of 15-20mins.
People who look at the same thing but from a different perspective, widen your own horizon and understanding of the world.
Resist the echo chambers you are in.
Do not spend time only with those who are like you.
How?
a) Pick up something that hasn't been working for you - could be anything - interviews, exams, dating etc.
b) Identify someone whose advice you would NEVER consider, because you think they do not understand you or your world.
c) Ask them how would they approach it?
Here is what I wasn't doing 1. Wasn't watching cricket (rarely do) 2. Wasn't reading/shooting/writing/thinking 3. Wasn't looking to create engagement on twitter :) 4. Wasn't working on Excel sheets or breaking FDs 5. Wasn't "doing epic shit!" (joke puraana ho chuka hai")
Ten 90-day challenges for your mind, body and soul.
A thread...
1: Structured thinking
Our mind is buzzing with thoughts.
But when we start speaking, we fail to structure them.
What is needed, is a way to pace our thoughts.
That is where writing helps.
Writing is the slowest form of expression.
When we write, we are not just thinking about what we wish to communicate, we are also selecting the most important thought from all other thoughts.
Write everyday for 90-days.
And always conclude with a "This tells me that ________"