“We do not always allow ourselves to work through pain. More often than not, we think pain is a signal that we must stop, rather than find its source..."
Our souls do not like stagnation. Our souls aspire toward growth, that is, toward remembering all that we have forgotten due to our trip to this place, the earth. In this context, a body in pain is a soul in longing.”
― Malidoma Patrice Somé, 1956-2021.
The planet lost a titan of consciousness yesterday in Malidoma Somé, a West African Titíulo, medicine man, diviner, healer, author, teacher, friend, grandson, son, father, husband and elder, spending his time between his homeland in Dano, Burkina Faso, and Asheville, NC.
Godspeed, elder. May you find comfort and transformation with your ancestors, even as you're becoming one.
And the work of imparting West African wisdom in ancestral, ecological, & grief connection continues.
I deeply regret not participating in any of Elder Malidoma’s ritual, grief work, or men’s intensives, many of which were held practically in my back yard. I find it fascinating―what I focus on, and what I miss.
If you’re interested, see malidoma.com to learn how you might support his own transitional wishes, as well as family and students during this liminal time, and to learn about upcoming gatherings.
Maybe I’ll see you there.
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In the wee hours this morning I heard the heartbreaking news that Anne Rice died, surrounded by loved ones, due to complications from a stroke.
Anne revolutionized gothic horror writing with her layered, humanizing, and sensuous approach to storytelling...
Anne Rice initiated a trend toward more sympathetic portrayals of (say) vampires, telling the story of their eternal power and anguish from *their* point of view, which became the de facto norm for later shows like Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Twilight, and True Blood.
The LGBTQ community in particular embraced Rice's supernatural creatures’ ‘outsider’ status as their own, and she embraced them right back, becoming an early safe haven and trusted voice for queer folk.
"If we are going to achieve our purpose in life, we must be willing to fall out of grace and accept its lessons. When we feel righteous about ourselves, or deny our brokenness, we are fighting against the higher states of grace that await us."
"Failure is built into grace. You cannot have one without the other. It's like two sides of a single coin. Everyone who has achieved a state of grace is certain at some point to fall, and to have fallen many times before."
"Every successful person, everyone you respect, will tell you that they have mountains of failure behind them…
When we are in grace, we begin to take things for granted and we actually stop working on ourselves. Falling out of grace shakes us up."
“America, the government isn't giving you money/tests/resources. It probably isn't even right to say you're "receiving" it. You're ACCESSING your own funds &/or getting what you already paid for. It's called the promotion of our general welfare. Watch your language (& theirs).”
“You'll be accessing it the way Chuck Schumer & Mitch McConnell have been accessing our money & resources their entire adult lives. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. We don't say banks give & we receive. Let's not fall for the rhetoric of shame. Slow the tape.”
“We pay for drone strikes, libraries, roads, golf trips, bailouts, public schools, electric chairs, naval carriers, a big White House, statues, etc. Directing our resources to the direct care of one another's health is one way of attempting actionable patriotism. Watch closely.”