that's a lie because I just want xie'er to get spanked.
warning for spanking?
yifu spanked xie'er one time, and it's printed in xie'er's mind. he remembers the shame of failure, how distant he felt from yifu.
did he make him lean against the arm of the chair and cane him? did he have someone else do it? xie'er trying not to cry or move or make a sound. wallowing in yifu's disappointment. he leaves in shame.
ye baiyi suggests it as a sex game and xie'er is like uhhhh sure
he thinks the goal is for ye baiyi to make him cry. he brings ye baiyi a cane and he's like 'what am I gonna do with this? you want me to break your ass'
xie'er is like, that's right, ye baiyi is very strong. he doesn't need anything to hurt him.
mine would be the zhao jing tells xie'er he's a little animal that needs to be kept in line.
Or when he gets angry, he gets mean in bed. so xie'er expects the same from ye baiyi. if they have an argument and later he's blowing ye baiyi, he expects to be face fucked. if ye baiyi is fucking him, he expects to be spanked or fucked meanly, half prepped and shoved in.
the fix it is ye baiyi being gentle when xie'er doesn't expect it.