Anywhere from 50 to 85% of the country dislikes and even *hates* what they spend the majority of their working hours doing. The only solution to that is constant distraction.
Sure, holding businesses/employers accountable would be an option, but the country’s too drunk on the concept of the individual, too scared to hold employers accountable, and too invested in the status of labor endorsed by an organization to even start down that path.
We can’t even bring ourselves to use clear language when discussing their direct and overt behavior
But that status part is what I think is going take us down
WAY too many of us have self-perception tied up in a career path or just the status of being employed…that’s a major hurdle to imagining a different kind of life…the kind you don’t need constant distraction from
*waking hours
And I get it…because I’ve been there…working the kind of job that’s so out of alignment with who you are that you’ll sacrifice sleep, rest, health and everything else just to feel like your life isn’t dominated by that thing you do 40hrs a week
I fought it tooth and nail until I found a better way, but most of us just settle in. By the time you’ve got a mortgage, kids, and retirement resting on that lifestyle…I’m really not sure how you turn things around.
And layer on the fact that you’ve had to make all kinds of suboptimal decisions just to maintain access to healthcare? Of course U.S. public health is in shambles
I also think this is part of the reason so many USians push back against universal coverage/M4A…they had to structure their lives around employment that held their healthcare hostage…why shouldn’t everybody else?
But overall this country is reaping the logical consequence of a business/work culture founded on chattel slavery and coerced labor. The path out of this is going to take deeper change than I think most of us want to accept.
…as usual, Black US folk especially (in this case)…we need to explore all our options and practice strategic distance management from employment. #BFTips
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I do believe that withholding our labor is incredibly powerful right now…I also believe that employers have left most Americans in a position where that choice requires sacrifices they aren’t willing to make, regardless of the long-term implications
That’s through low wages and continued control of access to healthcare during a global pandemic.
More than ever, I think people need to explore the easiest and most accessible paths to independent labor that they can find…everybody #BlackBurnout
I really think people give this advice in romantic contexts for the same reason they do in employed (network/get a degree)
They don’t want to grapple with how little control we have in reaching our goals…or how infrequently things are working out for those who have “arrived”
Or it’s a tacit acknowledgment that it’s all you’ve really got, so put your energy there. Is it lazy? Maybe, but I also think people know what’s up.
It’s also a way to skate around discussion of core needs (companionship, health, income, attention, self esteem) how traditional institutions aren’t going to be an answer, with high success rates. and how people are going to have to elsewhere to find what they’re looking for
I want to see Black freelancers take advantage of location-independence and lifestyle design…but to maintain and enhance connection with/contribution to communities and find safety…not adopt predatory behavior. #BFTips
10 years or so back this was the thing…make more, outsource to countries with the cheapest viable labor possible, live in areas you enjoy with the cheapest COL you can find…basically encouraging indie businesses to double down on privilege & the worst practices of capitalism
Because practically everybody is actively supporting the facade of the base decency of employment.
They only start to get honest once they know you’ve experienced a crack...and even then they won’t tell you the whole truth because they need the lies themselves.
“Your job isn’t who you are” is a partial truth to keep you invested in the system.
The whole truth starts when we talk about how a job will change, consume, and even destroy who you are and who you want to be...but that’s painful for anyone to admit.
As always, yes, even a good job.
Anything that dictates your sleep patterns, where you live, who you spend time around, how often you see your friends, family, and children? It might not be who you are, but it’s in the drivers’ seat. #BlackBurnout
LOVE this mention of using freelance writing to fund a "Grownup Gap Year" from @vaycarious—"I actually wish I'd started earlier." buff.ly/31xjNfl
I just did my first work-travel stint in Japan and it was amazing how much I was able to do just working a few hrs each morn
That trip taught me a lot. I was getting $500-$700 of work done/day before 9AM (with a little boost from jet lag) but that basically left me with a full day to hang out/explore.
It *really* clarified my high-earning/low-effort services and what slows me down at home.
i.e. I realized that blogging, even at $400+ for a ~500-word post, is a low-earner for me. Long-form work (case studies, white papers) and short form (emails, web copy) is where I start getting close to those $1000 days without working all day. #BFTips