Read this thread until the end.
The texts that must be grappled with are everywhere, even where you don’t think to look. Just in yesterday’s daf, the Talmud says we can’t rely on testimony of a person who experienced something as a child. Would the Sages believe Walder’s victims?
Or what about the opinion of the Amora Shmuel’s father, that every married woman who is raped by another man is forbidden to her husband because we must assume she ultimately acquiesced (תחלתה באונס וסופה ברצון)? Would he believe Walder’s victims?

sefaria.org/Ketubot.51b.8
As Dr. RPS said, we need to start grappling with these questions *now*. That means creating new Torah that affords equal respect to the subjective experience of women. And children, and queer people, and disabled people, and every other group of people our tradition marginalizes.
As it happens, the Daf Yomi will soon be starting Seder Nashim, the section of Talmud that deals with marital and sexual relationships. We desperately need new perspectives on these texts from contemporary lenses of gender, sexuality, relationships and more.
Many people have already written on these texts from academic perspectives. Their voices must be amplified, as well as those of people who have not yet shared their Torah.
With that in mind, please DM me if you would be interested in being part of a rotation of writers to write a short thought or question on the daily daf to be sent out as a newsletter and on the Daf Yomi Facebook group I run (facebook.com/groups/5630809…) beginning March 9.
This project will be open to all, but will center the voices of cis and trans women, non-binary and other queer folks, and people with disabilities. The more voices we have, the more powerful they’ll be together (and the less often we’ll all have to write!)
@adinakarp_ and I will also make an additional effort to center these voices on our podcast @interleaved_pod, and focus specifically on texts that marginalize them, as well as issues affecting them (sexual abuse, agunah, discrimination etc.). If you want to be a guest, DM us!
Allowing cishet men to continue their monopoly on interpretation of Torah brought us to this horrible place. The only way forward is to empower everyone else to reclaim these texts by situating them in their historical context and by sharing their uniquely personal perspectives.
Orthobro anons: I can already predict your attacks that I’m not Orthodox. Guess what? I don’t care. I’m shomer Torah u’mitzvos and believe in Torah miSinai. If Orthodoxy means being in community with people who silence victims and leave them for dead, the label means squat to me.
And if your theology can’t accommodate the fact that some of the Sages’ beliefs and halachic decisions were explicitly dismissive of women’s subjectivity because you think everything they said was true, own it. Don’t call others unOrthodox because you can’t handle complexity.
The simplistic, unnuanced beliefs you hold are exactly what got us here. You’re free to believe whatever you want, but don’t expect us to care. You can be left in the dustbin of Jewish history like everyone else who put uncompromising adherence to “tradition” before human life.

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2 Jan
To all my non-religious/non-Jewish followers confused/disturbed why I’m tweeting so much about sexual abuse:

Thank you for staying with me until now. My community is undergoing a major reckoning and it’s difficult to think, and certainly tweet, about other things right now. 1/3
I’m also in a PhD program, which limits the amount of time I can spend here. So for the next few weeks most, if not all of my tweets, will be about this issue. I promise you, I wish I didn’t have to tweet so much about this. But I cannot remain silent given the platform I have. 2
If it’s traumatizing or otherwise upsetting for you—which I COMPLETELY understand (I myself am learning my limits)—please mute me. I’ll send out a tweet when things are somewhat back to normal. Until then, take care of yourselves and can’t wait to talk lighter stuff with y’all!❤️‍🩹
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1 Jan
Shavua tov. If your rabbi didn’t talk about believing and supporting victims of sexual abuse (either in a speech, email, or even a note in the newsletter), it might be time to find a new rabbi. Even better, it might be time to rethink your relationship with rabbis.
As Asher says perfectly here, there’s nothing that rabbis learn in their training that makes them remotely qualified to handle sexual abuse. Even @YUNews’ rabbinical school, a “Modern Orthodox” institution, offers no formal training to their students.
Why? Because Orthodoxy’s idea of the rabbi’s role, and in turn laypeople’s relationships with rabbis, is deeply, deeply skewed and unhealthy. People think rabbis have the answers for everything, that they’re God’s messengers on Earth because they spent a few years learning Torah.
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24 Nov 21
Gentle reminder that the Baruch Lanner scandal was widely considered a watershed moment and yet Orthodox institutions continue to look the other way on child sex abuse. There will be no real watershed moment until there is trauma-informed Halacha mandating us to believe victims.
Chaim Walder had dozens of victims. Baruch Lanner might have had more. You know why the community acted? Because victims don’t get together to make this stuff up. It’s a numbers game.
How do I know it’s a numbers game? Because of the leaders (yes, Modern Orthodox leaders too) who didn’t do anything when they knew about 1 or 2 victims. And press generally won’t cover it unless there are more. So the leaders are in the clear. And the victims suffer in silence.
Read 27 tweets
17 Nov 21
Update: Radio Kol Chai, one of the top 2 Charedi radio stations in Israel, just suspended Walder's show. There are rumors his column in Yated Neeman will be suspended as well. It is possible these media outlets are just doing damage control, but this is still unprecedented.
The Charedi-owned department store chain Osher Ad has also removed Walder's books from its stores.

This would likely not be possible without the hard work of the Charedi feminist organization @Nivcharot and feminist activists @Estyshushan, @pninapf, @EfratChocron, @AvigayilKar, and many more I'm forgetting. They are making real change. Follow them!

the7eye.org.il/436158
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16 Nov 21
It’s now been more than 3 days since this news broke. And the only people talking about it here are the people who always call out abuse.

I want to be shocked, but I’m used to it already.

A thread on how the institutional structure of the Orthodox community perpetuates abuse:
First I’ll lay out the 3 problems with Orthodox infrastructure that perpetuate abuse, then I’ll explain each one by one in separate threads.
1. There’s no check on men in power.
2. Teacher is a lowly, unglamorous job so no one cares to properly evaluate their suitability to teach kids.
3. The well-being and right to self-determination of Orthodox children is not prioritized over their staying within the Orthodox fold.
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28 Oct 21
I gotta say, I did not expect to have an excuse to post this thread, so thanks Rabbi Arthur Schneier’s lucky stars, I guess?

7 Myths About Jewish Astrology, Debunked, a Thread
Myth #1: Astrology is avodah zarah (idolatry).

Fact: Astrology is only avodah zarah if you believe the cosmos control your fate and there is nothing controlling the cosmos. Or, of course, if you pray directly to the sun, moon, stars, or planets.
Even Rambam, the great rationalist, who writes trenchantly against star-worship in the first chapter of his Laws of Idolatry, believed the Zodiac was significant enough to mention in a halakhic work. He also believed celestial bodies have a higher level of knowledge than humans.
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