I know the book threads are coming thick and fast but I just finished such a beauty. 1955’s “A night to remember” by Walter Lord. It unfolds the events of the titanic as though you are right there, from the moment the iceberg scrapes against the ship, leaving ice on deck
To the moment the last person hears the news&through so much humanity, bravery and fear in between. My heart was in my mouth reading it even though we know what happens. Sometimes it also made me laugh such as when Thayer saw a fellow passenger swaying across deck,drunk on gin&
thought “I wont see him again if I survive” and then it turned out the drunk man not only survived but was the first other survivor Thayer saw after it was all over. Mostly though it was just so incredibly moving. Wives refusing to leave husbands, kindnesses done under chaos
And W.T Stead there in the midst of it all. Mr.Stead was the man who helped expose the scale of child prostitution in london, and along with women like Josephine Butler, helped raise the age of consent in England. I knew he died on the titanic through Fawcett’s book
Which is really why I picked this one up. For most of the time the ship was sinking, he was reading quietly in the first class smoking room. Not because he didn’t know of the danger, but because he did and that was his response. I hope they have named libraries after that man!
What people chose to pack on their person when they knew they were in trouble was strangely touching, too. The man who left his fortune in a tin box but chose an orange and a lucky pin, the woman who deserted her £11000 pounds of jewellery but made a point of taking her muff
Or the chap who gallantly tried to stuff his clothes with books. The gallant band are there,of course,too,playing ragtime until the last minute when they switch to Autumn. I’d not heard the piece before but it’s stunning. I intend to buy the piano sheet music so I can learn it.
I listened to it as I read.
The aftermath of the sinking is riveting. The wider politics of class&how it affected who lived,as well as the courage of the attempt to rescue some in the sea by one lifeboat,the complete refusal to try by others&the great efforts of the Carpathia
It is such a beautiful,tenderly written&frankly unforgettable book.
I’m full of feelings now&I think this is how history writing always ought to be done
In ways that make you almost feel like you have lived it
I’m only sorry to have reached the last page
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I want to talk about being safe, as a woman, within our movement. Especially for anon women if your anonymity is vital. Im not very tech savvy but on that side,if you’re using an email associated with your real name,consider changing it. Especially to something like proton mail.
But I’m not thinking specifically about safety against TRAs. Just safety. For example,I know some women have had weird interactions with straight GC men. In some cases they subsequently feel hesitant to break off the friendship as he knows their real name
There was also the instance where a prominent man allegedly handed over the name of a woman in this fight to a TRA who then went to the police about her. Many of us once gave our names and addresses to a man who later threatened to doxx women and went full TRA
Book 3 of 2022 was something a bit special. Taken from a publisher who highlights “forgotten books” I managed to find on kindle “What I remember” by Millicent Garrett Fawcett, the famous suffragist. Her words take you straight back to the 1800s…
She covers her life from her own perspective which is fascinating. Not only to understand the time she lived in (she was 4 when Prince Albert had his great exhibition and 2 at the start of the Irish potato famine) but also to glimpse the world in motion in that era
She met her husband at a party when he overheard her views on Lincoln’s assassination. She was a supporter of the north, horrified by slavery and thought Abe was a hero for fighting against it.
This gives me pause.This is not the direction of my fight. Im not interested in seeing people with DSDs as the problem just because TRAs used them to try&assault women’s boundaries
Contrary to TRA assertion,women like me don’t want to karyotype people before giving them access to female spaces. CAIS is a special case. If youre born into a world that instantly sees you as female because of how you’ve developed you are at the same risk other girls are
Then,when you discover your medical condition and that you will never be pregnant you must have so much grief as a result. Discovering youre genetically male,contrary to the apparent external appearance&development of your own body must be a dissonance or difficulty for many
I’m amazed at how apologetic I was when i joined this fight. How much I felt the need to soften the blow of every simple truth in order to protect the very people currently removing my rights and threatening me and my fellow women with outrageous harms for not accepting it.
That isn’t compassion,although it pretends to be&feels like it. When someone stamps on your foot hard,&you feel like you need to apologise for putting your foot in their path,that is part of their harm against you. It’s part of their power&it keeps you subordinated to that power
“Please let me justify why I don’t like someone stamping on my foot. Please understand Im not a hateful vindictive person for saying so.”
That’s where many of us start
Guilty for having human needs and monstered for expressing them.
This was a stellar terven year. As we sail into 2022 with our hoarded rights in our seditious pockets, I’ve been remembering some of the great moments of this year; the creative, the courageous or hopeful. I marvel at how far we’ve come. Even as we have far to go 💜🤍💚.
Look…
In January,right out the gate,gay men fought back against the witch hunting of Boyz magazine. In February,GC academia network shared stories of effects of trans ideology in academia/higher education.The sharing of such stories peaks others&helps us all find strength to fight back
In March we filled out a census that still contained data on biological sex because of the work of many including @fairplaywomen who went to the high court and @janeclarejones who wrote “Sex and the census”.
The 12th was also the first ever Detrans Awareness Day.
I’m intending to reread Men Trapped in Men’s Bodies but in the meantime I thought I’d do a thread with some extracts from the narratives of men with autogynephilia from the book
Understanding this paraphilia is imperative for all of us talking about the erosion of women’s rights
I think reading this book means a lot of confusing things fall into place for women
Such as the constant evocations of being a “girl” that we see from transwomen. As well as the surprising desire to have a cervical smear or “gynaecological care” that we have sometimes seen.
Despite the quote attributions, these are the words of anon agp transsexuals, not Lawrence.
This informant explained to me why, perhaps, some transwomen go out in extremely revealing and astonishing outfits. Such as the fishnet, breast revealing, top from yesterday