A man will catch feelings for a woman. If a man is human than he will have some feelings for a woman after being in a relationship for a while. But the key thing this thread will discuss is how to keep emotional distance and low feelings for a woman.
Feelings build based on sentiment and emotional attachment through reliance on validation. A man will begin to have feelings for a woman because he begins to romanticize her apart from other women. The more special a man makes a woman in his mind, the greater the feeling.
The more a man emotional relies on a woman and the more he views her as special will fuel his sentiment for her. Sentiment is a glowing aura around people/things that we have closely associated with our own ego. Sentimentality is emotionalism.
Why would a man want to keep his feelings low and stay unattached to a woman? Because to be more successful in a romantic relationship with a woman requires emotional distance necessary for rational leadership. The more attached a man becomes the less authority he has
In a way, a man must be distant and detached if he truly loves a woman. It is a balancing act and takes power of frame. Women reward distant men and become emotionally charged around them. Being detached creates a heavy love inside the woman. And this is important to romance.
How can a man keep low emotion and stay detached? He must rationalize the woman as common. In truth she is common, but our emotions blind us to this fact. And even if a woman is uncommon, finding as much commonality with other women will help a man to see her as one of many.
Another way a man can stay in low emotion is to work on emotionally validating himself. The less he uses a woman for emotional comfort, the less he will see her as emotionally needed for his sense of self. Women will work hard to nurture to feel needed. It is their design.
See the commonalities. Understand female nature. Validate yourself. Practice the low emotional state carried with masculine frame. Exist in a rational worldview. This will increase a woman's love and feelings for you. And if you truly love her, you will give her this.
A man may wonder what to do when he catches his woman cheating. When a woman is disloyal and betrays a man can cause him deep pain from emasculation. Men hold great pride that deserves greater respect by women. OUR PRIDE IS HOLY AND A WOMAN WHO CHEATS PROFANES THAT GLORY.
So, what should a man do when he catches his woman cheating? Let us define "Cheating" -- There are levels to this. A woman who flirts with other men is cheating on her man. She is disrespecting him by pretending she is available for sexual access. She gets off the attention.
A common issue with unframed men in their relationships with their women is that the women control the sex. These women will frequently deny and reject their men sexually with various excuses.
"I have a headache" "I am not in the mood" "I do not feel attractive tonight" -- blah blah blah. These are common phrases that women use to slide out of their responsibility to supply their men sex. These women are not sexually aroused by their men and feel burdened by sex
Why a man must be a protector/provider to his woman.
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The idea of men being protector/providers to their women may seem old fashion to modern feminist sensibilities. Feminists may say "Men have been protector/providers historical"
They use the word "Historically" because history can be dismissed. This fuels their worldview of social constructs. It allows them to think it is merely a bygone tradition with little rational meaning.
When a man goes from unframed to framed, in his teens, twenties or later; women will say how he "Grew into himself" Or "Calmed down" -- Women commonly say this after a man picks up frame because the man's projected anxiety has lowered.
The biggest turn off for women is nervousness. And a man becomes nervous when he is in doubt. This doubt filled state is the common state of a feminized man. Why? Because the man is dependent on emotional validation which means he requires more validation of self.
Unframed men will have years of feminization to overcome when picking up frame. They will have decades of seeking affection over respect built into their identity. And if a man has gotten to the point where he wants a framed life is a man who is willing to admit a need for change
A feminized man will be groomed to constant doubt over his inner emotional state. This will cause him to seek external validation to ease his anxiety of identity and doubt of self by seeking the approval of others.
A woman is innately vulnerable. This causes an unframed man to think "She is vulnerable, therefore I must be sensitive with her" This logic will make a man think he must be soft because she is soft.
Matching softness to softness is like matching a woman with a woman. But do women sexually crave to be with each other, or do they seek out what is different to them? We know that opposites attract. So matching softness to softness is counterproductive to sexual attraction.