Let me say this boldly, when you’re with a woman on the same bed, even if she is naked, don’t assume she is willing to sleep with you.
If she allowed you touch those sensitive parts and even open her legs for your fingers to roam, if she says “stop”
It doesn’t matter if she is
Your wife, babe or girlfriend!
It doesn’t matter if she is your side chick or your side hen, even if she got paid to get on your bed, my brother, PLEASE, stop!
It may be painful, especially if you have done the do in your mind
She might seem like an ingrate, if you have spent so
Much money or used all your wits to get her to even be on that bed with you
You may feel hurt, used, abused or cockteased!
Don’t teach her a lesson, don’t do anything, just let her be!
You’re asking if it is that easy, hmmm
Let me tell you the alternative!
If you go ahead and
have your way
You’re a rapist!
That label does not go away easily, it has ruined many
If she calls the police or goes to the authorities to report after the do has been done
The kind of trouble you will get into will lead you to places you never assumed you could ever go!
A woman
Owns her own body even in a marriage
A man also owns his own body
The irony of the whole matter is this, women enjoy sec more than men but only if they say “come”, if a woman didn’t say “come” every thrust will be a year of anguish for you and she will count it!
If you finish too
early, the disappointment will make her lengthen your jail term
If you finish very late and she even gasped with orgasm, the avalanche of trouble coming your way will make you swear never to have sex with anybody again
The psychological trauma alone and the way people will start
looking at you afterwards, on my, you have to consider this things
I am a Christian and I believe people should be married before having sexual relations but this counsel goes to all
Sir, even if you have been married for 20 years and you have five children, her “no” is not a
suggestion
It is a command!
Turn around and get out of that bed
Intact get out of the room
If it is during the day, you can leave the house and take a long stroll
If it is at night, take your phone and start browsing or reading something, anything
Take your mind off it!
A cold
shower will help and so will a movie like “beautiful mind” or “Jack Reacher” avoid any romantic movies at this time and keep far away from pornography!
Don’t add petrol to fire
If you have taken a pill before you got that no and the pill is making your body shiver with desire
go to the kitchen, boil some water and get a towel
It is time to massage yourself
You can cry a little, it will relieve the tension
See, it will soon be morning
Or the whatever will soon come down
After it comes down, assess your options
You can break up in peace and send me a
message asking to be saved
I will be there for you or you can have a discussion with her and be gentle about it
Remember that you will get an opportunity to say no too someday, if you so desire
So the No can go both ways
Refuse to be bitter, as horny as dogs can get I have seen
then taking a no without getting violent
Are you not better than them?
If you learn to control your passion and temper, you may get to gallop on that horse again for many years
But forcing it this one time may mean the end of galloping on any horse for many years!
Remember my
candid advise pls
Don’t get yourself in a pickle
If you’re hungry and you know a plate of food on your table is poisoned, you won’t eat it
The same goes for sex without consent
That hole has buried many glories, save yourself!
Finally, if she is wearing a short gown or skirt
she is not asking for it or tempting you
She didn’t wear it for you or on your neck
She wore it for herself
If she opens her legs and you can’t see see panties
She might like you watching but not like sleeping with you
You have an option of looking away
There is no argument you
can tender
Once you enter the place illegally, the door will close and you will be in that jail for a long time.
Remember my counsel
Her “Yes” is sancrosant!
I love you with all my heart.
PS: You can send me a DM if you have been raped or going through any issues regarding this
I promise you my discretion and the healing balm of Christ.
08072744871 is my WhatsApp number
My DM is also open
Let’s save ourselves from a ruined future
God bless you
NB: Even if she does not report and you get away with it, you're still a rapist!
That thing does something strange to your mind and changes who you are at your core
Remember this!
The hypocrisy of this generation is galling, we are blaming teenagers for going into rituals and voodoo in order to make money
We are blaming their parents
We are crying foul
We are removing ourselves from the equation
As if we were not the ones who opened pandora's box
That's
very funny
Who made money the ultimate thing in life?
Was it not this generation?
Who started and glorified the "yahoo yahoo" fraud?
Was it not this generation?
Was it not Oluwhatever that sang Yahooze, wasn't the song the DJ's favorite during the last presidential campaign
The generation before us prioritized education
Of course, there were ritualists and fraudsters but most of them tried the legal route first and waited to have a break until they lost faith in their late 20s/ early thirties and turned to crime
In fact, most of the early fraudsters
Some years ago, I was walking my then girlfriend home around Mobil bus stop, close to Agbowo/Orogun in Ibadan.
It had rained relentlessly for many days and the road was flooded.
There was a narrow path that was dry, the path can only take one person at once
This guy, tall huge
guy, and his babe were walking towards us
Myself and my babe got to that dry path first.
My babe went ahead and I followed her, expecting the couple opposite us to wait.
This guy’s babe didn’t wait she walked straight towards us, my babe had reached the other end by this time and
I was a few steps away
This lady charged at me, I dodged to the left to give her some room
She crossed
I also crossed
I got to the other side, her boyfriend gave me a dirty slap
He said when I passed by her babe my hand touched her bum bum
Omoh!
I was 5 ‘11 in height and I looked
After sleeping with many people, something happens to you as a person.
Something happens to your heart
Something happens to your ability to feel right
Your essence, your core is reprogrammed against feeling the right thing
No matter what your reason for sleeping around is
No matter the artificial and material benefits you got
Regardless of whether you are forced or do this willingly
Your soul begins to cry out loud inside your core
You begin to dislike yourself, to develop a distaste for life
You begin to resent the image you see in the mirror
You begin to crave a community of your kind, to prevent yourself from drowning
You find yourself unable to keep the company of decent friends and people
You see them as hypocrites whose judgment you cannot bear
You want to mingle with those with who you share a common history
Do you notice how nothing is really wrong anymore?
I did and it had been going on for some time
The lines between right and wrong has blurred and we have people as many people defending wrong actions as we have defending right actions in today’s relative truth ideology!
We have
gotten to the tipping point where nothing makes sense anymore
Everybody has their version of truth and they will hold on to it even if you present them with irrefutable evidence that they are wrong
A guy is dating many ladies at once, sleeping with all of them
He boasts about it
On social media and the comments are “True King”, “Warrior”, “Superstar”, “Ninja”
There may be some other comments and they may condemn his actions but the more some try to say “this is wrong” the more others say “This is right”
The moral compass of the society has been destroyed
I have laughed so much today, i ought to sue @Trevornoah for over laughter
One of my teachers has insisted for many years that "black" people as defined by the "Pink" people are not black as much as the "pink" people are not white
But stereotypes remain as they have always been!
the same applies to a saved person
So I met this lady today, a beauty in yellow body hug and a pair of jeans
She is a born again Christian
She is single
She had a guy she was dating some years ago, they wanted to get married but the guy got a scholarship to school in the UK and
they broke up because she didnt see any sense in a long-distance relationship
After four years, this guy completed his M.SC and started his PhD
He decided to come to Nigeria
He called her out of the blues and informed her he was coming home
She was torn
How do
The quality of your life depends on your knowledge of God's word
Knowledge is light
Ignorance is darkness
The less you know, the more unenlightened you are
The more you know, the more enlightened you are
You can be a born again Christian and your life will be from calamity to
calamity
You will go for deliverance
Go for vigils and fasts
Visit "Apostles" and "Prophets" who will fleece you endlessly and turn you to a cow they will milk continuously to get rich and grow in fame
And yet you will remain on one spot or you can be a born again Christian and
grow in knowledge daily
Many believers think prayer is everything
So they spend hours and days praying for their situation to change
They are very wrong
You will pray amiss when you lack knowledge
You will fast amiss when you lack knowledge
The prophets of baal prayed and so did