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Feb 1 8 tweets 2 min read
I tweet a lot about productivity, but I’m also a church musician (among other things). Yesterday the 2nd reading at church was Paul’s famous discourse on love.

It’s often used for weddings—which is lovely—but I fear that pigeonholes a profound and far-reaching text.
We definitely SHOULD be patient and kind with our nearest and dearest.

We should also be patient and kind with everyone ELSE—including those who make it super difficult to be patient and kind.
Love, by Paul’s definition, is all-encompassing—and not just in the sense that it should be practiced with everyone.

“It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
When we speak of romantic love, we leave open the chance we could “fall out of love.”

(And that’s necessary: romantic love should not trap you in a dangerous or abusive situation.)

But Paul’s “Love” isn’t romantic, and it can’t be fallen out of.

It can only be abandoned.
Leading with love is seen as weak, foolish, easily manipulated.

And it’s true that love makes you vulnerable—but which is stronger? Keeping everyone at arm’s length? Or letting people in, building deep connections, even though you ARE vulnerable?
Those who trumpet their strength are compensating for their weakness.
Love means never taking anything personally.

Envy, arrogance, rudeness—all are rooted in insecurity, and our fear that others can SEE that insecurity.

When you love, it starts with you and emanates into your slice of the universe. You don’t take IN the poison of insecurity.
My friends, love each other.

Paul’s words about love may live in the Christian Bible, but they’re true for all of us, regardless our religious (or non-religious) leanings.

Be patient. Be kind. Seek truth.

Be open. Be vulnerable. Be strong.

Love each other.

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My #Productivity workflow is in @RoamResearch. Prior to that I did it in @todoist.

The PRINCIPLES of my workflow aren’t unique to Roam. Just the implementation.

Here’s what I mean:
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Then I…
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3. Capture my ideas, tasks, projects, etc.

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Is it possible to create time?

We never seem to have enough.

⌛ We need more time for our kids
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But time is fixed, isn't it? We can't just "make more."

Literally, yes. But PRACTICALLY...
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This concept isn't new:

"A stitch in time saves nine."
"An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."

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There’s an “artist” side to me (read, perhaps, “crazy”) that is all the more COMPELLED when @Conaw shares his insecurities about building @RoamResearch. I appreciate authenticity.

But shouldn’t “business R.J.” hedge his bets?
After all, unlike Beau, I *AM* selling something. Several things.

Wouldn’t I be wise to spend more time learning other Tools for Thought? Spreading the “productivity workflows WANT to live in Tools for Thought” gospel?
Let’s be clear: I probably will expand my business into other Tools for Thought sometime down the road.

Why haven’t I already?

(1) I don’t make courses about things I’m not 100% confident in, and I have to “live with” a process for a while before I teach it.

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And who has 8 weeks to set aside for a live cohort?

What's so special about AP Productivity that makes it WORTH that?

I mean, I'm obviously biased, but read on for why *I* think it's worth it...
First, the investment.

📷 Picture this: It's mid-March. You are working in your smooth productivity workflow. It is tailored to the way you work and think, and specific to your needs.

How much more will you accomplish? $500 worth?

If you're like me, MUCH more than $500 worth!
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Why is this a cohort course rather than a static video course?

⏳ Because iteration takes time.

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(as mentioned in yesterday’s edition of @elaptics’s magnificent “Letters from a Roaman” newsletter, which you should definitely subscribe to!)
Here’s the full “The Roaman Way” playlist on YouTube:

youtube.com/playlist?list=…
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rjn.st/the-roaman-way
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