I tweet a lot about productivity, but I’m also a church musician (among other things). Yesterday the 2nd reading at church was Paul’s famous discourse on love.
It’s often used for weddings—which is lovely—but I fear that pigeonholes a profound and far-reaching text.
We definitely SHOULD be patient and kind with our nearest and dearest.
We should also be patient and kind with everyone ELSE—including those who make it super difficult to be patient and kind.
Love, by Paul’s definition, is all-encompassing—and not just in the sense that it should be practiced with everyone.
“It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
When we speak of romantic love, we leave open the chance we could “fall out of love.”
(And that’s necessary: romantic love should not trap you in a dangerous or abusive situation.)
But Paul’s “Love” isn’t romantic, and it can’t be fallen out of.
It can only be abandoned.
Leading with love is seen as weak, foolish, easily manipulated.
And it’s true that love makes you vulnerable—but which is stronger? Keeping everyone at arm’s length? Or letting people in, building deep connections, even though you ARE vulnerable?
Those who trumpet their strength are compensating for their weakness.
Love means never taking anything personally.
Envy, arrogance, rudeness—all are rooted in insecurity, and our fear that others can SEE that insecurity.
When you love, it starts with you and emanates into your slice of the universe. You don’t take IN the poison of insecurity.
My friends, love each other.
Paul’s words about love may live in the Christian Bible, but they’re true for all of us, regardless our religious (or non-religious) leanings.
Be patient. Be kind. Seek truth.
Be open. Be vulnerable. Be strong.
Love each other.
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⌛ We need more time for our kids
⌛ We need more time for our work
⌛ We need more time for our sanity
But time is fixed, isn't it? We can't just "make more."
Literally, yes. But PRACTICALLY...
💰 You can invest time the same way you invest money.
This concept isn't new:
"A stitch in time saves nine."
"An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."
If you invest time wisely, you create time down the road.
A story:
When I became choir director at my current church, they were accustomed to receiving practice CDs every week.
I didn't WANT to record every week, so I built a practice website instead. Once I had recorded a song it was done forever, and I didn't have to burn CDs.
There’s an “artist” side to me (read, perhaps, “crazy”) that is all the more COMPELLED when @Conaw shares his insecurities about building @RoamResearch. I appreciate authenticity.
After all, unlike Beau, I *AM* selling something. Several things.
Wouldn’t I be wise to spend more time learning other Tools for Thought? Spreading the “productivity workflows WANT to live in Tools for Thought” gospel?
📷 Picture this: It's mid-March. You are working in your smooth productivity workflow. It is tailored to the way you work and think, and specific to your needs.
How much more will you accomplish? $500 worth?
If you're like me, MUCH more than $500 worth!
Next, the time.
Why is this a cohort course rather than a static video course?
⏳ Because iteration takes time.
For you to build a productivity workflow tailored to YOU, you need my framework. But you ALSO need guidance and feedback over time.