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Feb 8 8 tweets 2 min read
Have I ever told the story of when I stood to be Labour parliamentary candidate ? Well it was wild….
Basically the Sharks and the Jetts had nothing on the division here at the time. I had lofty ideas on being a unity candidate and as I was the only woman from here on the all women shortlist I thought this is what’s needed here - less raging more hoping to win, that type of caper
So up I pitch and walk straight into a scene from West (Midlands) Side Story…both sides hated me. Which was fine y’know cut and thrust etc etc… I was asked the most unbelievable questions by snarling members who decided I was either a Corbynite or a Blairite…it was a mess. So
Fast forward to the selection after the usual phone banking type stuff more of the factionalism, anyhoo. The funniest bit was selection day with the fan bases on both sides applauded wildly after the speeches of “their” candidates and a little bit of pity applause for me. So
It was a tight race. Not for me obviously I was trying to unify which obviously is never going to fly. In the end the moderate candidate won and true to democracy a week into the 2019 GE the party deselected her. Her face was all over the campaign literature (sharks & Jetts) so
Despite all her work, despite reducing Kawzynski’s majority - year on year of being a candidate,despite being brilliant & intelligent & funny (two other candidates were talking about their holidays & called it cottaging and we locked eyes and couldn’t stop laughing, my point is -
Politics is a really, really, really shitty business. Oh and in case you were wondering I only got 8 votes unity in polarised times is really tough. But it was a learning experience for me, I learnt that politics isn’t for me, or maybe I’m not for it. 🤷‍♀️
PS the conversation went -
“Oh do you like cottaging too? A kindred spirit. Where do you cottage?”
“Oh all over the country and Wales too of course. I mean I’ve been on a cruise but my husband swears by cottaging. He just loves it”
“Mine too”
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Feb 11
An appreciation of nuance is not something usually afforded to women on here so I’m going to choose my words carefully (not that it will help tbh) and I’m going to mention TV shows (which you & I may otherwise love ) it’s not personal, so warily but with that love, here goes ….
TV & film has a woman problem. Not all women,just women who aren’t young. For the longest time, discrimination was just something we lived with. People of colour, women, disabled people, gay people -to name ‘just’ many millions,were struggling to see ourselves accurately onscreen
We’re seeing much needed leaps forward in onscreen representation. Gay characters aren’t just comedic caricatures, colour blind casting is opening up roles & disabled actors are not just being traduced to the least interesting thing about them (disability) in hospital dramas.
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Oct 26, 2020
So let’s chat about the take by some that if “you can’t afford kids don’t have them” so my parents both grew up poor then through education & training (mum nurse, father various ended up in advertising) able to afford a detached house 3 kids at private school. Then my dad left -
He saw no reason to “fund our lifestyle” (his kids) my brother was diagnosed with terminal heart & lung condition. My mum was struggling to keep things going. On one wage, hers. Now my father was a good Tory voter. Didn’t believe in the welfare state & “handouts” -
He turned my mum into a single mother, then my brother died. So he stopped paying my school fees . My mum was desperate for me to have consistency. Then he insisted the house be sold so he & his girlfriend could get half. He wasn’t on benefits, my mum didn’t bring it on herself.
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Oct 25, 2020
Watching “Rebecca”. I’ve a DEEP attachment to the novel Daphne Du Maurier & original film Joan Fontaine, Laurence Olivier Judith Anderson, George Sanders (Hitchcock, come on) I am thoroughly enjoying the #Netflix version. Of course it strays from the book, so did my favourite.
I’ll bore you with my take once it’s done but feel thus far the criticism is overly harsh.
Kristen Scott Thomas was superb. Farcical scene with Rebecca’s medical records which gave the final section, which was rushed anyway, a Nancy Drew aspect which was a shame.
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Oct 23, 2020
The perfect storm was a brutal era of austerity, followed by a Universal Credit system with a baked in mandatory waiting period, followed by a global pandemic involving job losses. The government chose now to be stubborn over a £20 million scheme to feed hungry children at Xmas
It’s not just that it’s breathtakingly inhumane, it’s spectacularly bad politics and everyone except the government (and people who loathe a social security safety net) knows that.
Most people prefer messages that are easy to understand and this tweet from @angelaeagle is the best example of that. Nobody wants kids to be hungry, let alone over the holiday we are most emotional about.
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Sep 4, 2020
These two talented actors are aged 6 years apart. Hugh Grant at 59 looks as he naturally is, whereas Nicole Kidman at 53 is showing us “youth face”. Authenticity has never more important except for middle aged women & it’s sold to us as “empowerment”. #GenderedAgeism
From “Love Island” to Caitlin Moran’s new book the message is clear. On screen and in our collective consciousness, ageing is a female “disease to be cured”. Authenticity and diversity can and should exist everywhere, except it seems on a woman’s face. Even games, now “fix” women
That syringe takes normal lips and fills them with chemicals. It’s called “styling” but it isn’t. Girls as young as 14 are now so terrified of ageing that they’re seeking Botox. They see looking older as failure, they see authenticity as transgression.
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Aug 24, 2020
It’s my birthday tomorrow & I’m feeling a bit reflective so if you’ll permit the self indulgence of a woman much closer to 60 than to forty, I wanted to tell you a few things I’ve learnt. Scroll on if you’d rather, I understand the insignificance of a middle aged woman’s opinion.
Nothing you ever do will affect the lives of others more than your capacity to love & be loved. If you weren’t shown how then you can learn. You’ll get hurt, but nothing worthwhile is ever easy. Being hurt isn’t a justification to cause hurt. That’s an excuse not a reason.
“A family” my mum once told me “is whoever you find behind a front door”. Make yours a safe and happy one for you and everyone in it. (Even if that’s just you and a goldfish). There is no “one way” to do anything as long as it’s legal. Find a way that works for everyone, equally.
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