Disregard for others' needs or feelings
Persistent lying
Repeated violation of the rights of others
Aggressive, often violent behavior
Impulsive behavior
Consistently irresponsible
Lack of remorse for behavior"
"Borderline Personality Disorder:
Unstable or fragile self-image
Unstable and intense relationships
Up and down moods
Ongoing feelings of emptiness
Frequent, intense displays of anger
Suicidal behavior or threats of self-injury
Stress-related paranoia that comes and goes"
"Histrionic Personality Disorder:
Constantly seeking attention
Excessively emotional, dramatic or provocative to gain attention
Speaks dramatically with strong opinions, but few facts or details to back them up
Easily influenced by others
Shallow, rapidly changing emotions"
"Narcissistic Personality Disorder:
Fantasies about power, success and attractiveness
Failure to recognize others' needs and feelings
Exaggeration of achievements or talents
Expectation of constant praise and admiration
Arrogance
Envy of others or belief that others envy you"
"Cluster B Personality Disorders are a categorization of personality disorders as defined in the DSM-IV and DSM-5. They are characterized by impulsive, self-destructive, emotional behavior and sometimes incomprehensible interactions with others."
"Indifferent and routine manipulation, exploitation, and violation of the rights of others... Difficulty regulating emotions, impulsivity, self-harm, dissociative feelings, and even psychotic episodes..."
"An overwhelming desire for attention, chronically unstable emotions, sensitivity, gullibility, and reckless behavior... A strong sense of self importance, underlying deep self esteem issues, exaggeration, manipulation, envy, arrogance, impatience, depression."
"Cluster B personality disorders are all characterized by emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, and frequent interpersonal conflicts. These individuals present as dramatic, emotional, and erratic."
"Treatments aim to help manage negative experiences, such as anger, anxiety, and depression. The goal is to reduce disruptive behaviors, which benefits the person and those around them."
"While there is no cure, treatments can help people manage their moods, change disruptive behaviors, and treat co-occurring problems, such as anxiety and depression. With the right support, many people with Cluster B Personality Disorders maintain healthy, happy relationships."
"But the person in treatment needs to understand why they are being treated for it to work. Certain people with Cluster B Personality Disorders avoid treatment because they don’t think anything is wrong with their behavior."
"It is always a temptation for a rich and lazy nation,
To puff and look important and to say:
'Though we know we should defeat you, we have not the time to meet you.
We will therefore pay you cash to go away.'..."
"...And that is called paying the Danegeld;
But we’ve proved it again and again,
That if once you have paid him the Danegeld
You never get rid of the Dane."
-- Kipling
"Danegeld, a tax levied in Anglo-Saxon England to buy off Danish invaders in the reign of Ethelred II (978–1016)."
"A Crybully is someone who engages in intimidation, harassment, or other abusive behavior while claiming to be a victim. They use perceived righteousness as a pretext to abuse others, and then play the sufferer when confronted about the abuse they were dishing out."
"Teachers are probably the first witnesses to the evolving Crybully: the young child who has learned bullying behaviors and acts out by hitting other children, until someone finally chooses not to put up with it and retaliates. The bully then cries, 'They hit me!'"
"If you don’t fight back, the Crybully bullies you. If you fight back, the Crybully cries and demands a safe space, because you made him or her feel unsafe."
"Emotional Blackmailers use fear, obligation and guilt, ensuring that others feel afraid to cross them, obligated to give them their way and swamped by guilt if they resist."
"Knowing that someone wants love, approval or confirmation of identity and self-esteem, Emotional Blackmailers threaten to withhold them or take them away altogether, making the other person feel they must earn them by [coerced] agreement."
"'Fear, obligation or guilt' is commonly referred to as 'FOG'. FOG is an acronym—a play on the word 'fog' which describes something that obscures and confuses a situation or someone's thought processes [as in Emotional Blackmail]."
"The Dark Triad comprises the personality traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. They are called dark because of their malevolent qualities."
"People scoring high on the three Dark Triad traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy are more likely to commit crimes, cause social distress, and create severe problems for organizations."
"People scoring high on the three Dark Triad traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy also tend to be less compassionate, agreeable, empathetic, satisfied with their lives, and less likely to believe they and others are good."
"Ressentiment is a sense of hostility directed toward an object or person that one identifies as the cause of one's frustration, that is, an assignment of blame for one's frustration."
"The sense of weakness, inferiority complex, and jealousy in the face of the 'cause' generates a rejecting/justifying value system, or morality, which attacks or denies the perceived source of one's frustration."
"This value system is then used as a means of justifying one's own weaknesses by identifying the source of envy as objectively inferior, serving as a defense mechanism that prevents the resentful individual from addressing and overcoming their insecurities and flaws."
"A moral entrepreneur is an individual, group, or formal organization that seeks to influence a group to adopt or maintain a norm; altering the boundaries of altruism, deviance, duty or compassion."
"The moral entrepreneur may press for the creation or enforcement of a norm for any number of reasons, altruistic or selfish. Such individuals or groups also hold the power to generate moral panic."
"He is interested in the content of rules. The existing rules do not satisfy him because there is some evil which profoundly disturbs him. He feels that nothing can be right in the world until rules are made to correct it."