Thread by @kaalakawwa234

Domestic things couples do that remind me of SidNaaz: A Thread

Because I’m in love with them, and all their little things.

#SidNaaz

• Hushed conversations at midnight, sleepy faces, hoarse morning voices, swollen eyes and nightwear.

The intimacy that resides in this is something I’m sure all couples can relate to. It takes a lot of trust in someone to be at your most vulnerable state in front -

- of them. You have to be comfortable enough to be willing to share yourself in your least glamorous, unfiltered and raw state. It comes with the knowledge that they will never judge you or use something you say that you normally wouldn’t without the covering of the night. Those-

- exchanges will always only be known by them, those 4 walls, the night, the stars and God. That sacred feeling of being 100% at ease with someone is a rarity they had the privilege to experience.

• Chappals

Chappals pehen na everywhere, even to shoots. These two give serious Mummy-Papa vibes sometimes. Tabhi to hum kehte he inki feeling alag he. Apne lagte hein hume, Inhi aadaton ki wajah se. They are so simple, just like regular people but famous. They never once -

- exuded cold, celebrity energy. Always down to earth and humble. Ordinary yet extraordinary in the best way possible. Their Chappals make it easier for me to connect with them, even if I sound silly saying it. It’s a little thing, so mundane but it is precious.

• Shukla G ka darrna,in a positive way,just like all husbands are afraid of biwi ka gussa & hurt hona.

It was so comical to watch him stumble over his words when SK asked for explanations,but it showed that he cared so deeply about her feelings.He couldn’t stand her Narazgi.

• The haq. Haq se daantna, guide karna aur samjhana.

The way they would scold each other, try to show them where they were going wrong, so that they wouldn’t make a wrong decision or take a wrong step with so much haq. Never once did they complain about this or the way they -

- went about it. Instead, they appreciated it. They were the only ones who truly wanted the best for each other in that house. They accepted and trusted that they were only trying to suggest the best things to one another. They gave each other that haq,despite only knowing each -

- other for such a short amount of time. It’s why it’s so laughable to me that some people are offended by that. They had no issue with it.

• Calming each other down when they’re angry,overwhelmed or upset.

Be it breaking down in front of each other, wiping the other’s tears -

- , soothing the other’s anger with gentle touches and subtle words, the way they were so in sync with the other’s feelings, it’s something people dream of having. All that was running through their minds would probably be how they could fix it, not even realising they knew -

exactly how to do it. It shocked them when it finally hit them how deep they were in later.

• Massages, Champis, helping each other out with chores, staying up and taking care of the other when they were sick.

They might have complained about it when asked to, and pretended -

- to do it begrudgingly, but their doing exactly as asked proved they felt different. Cleaning up together, chopping vegetables for dinner together, Shukla G making Sana tea, Sana fetching him water,or carrying his items from the captain room to their own.Their iconic champi, -

- Shehnaaz getting up repetitively all night to massage his legs when he was in pain, Sidharth wanting her close when he was sick and her giving him that, Sidharth pressing her hands when they hurt, not wanting to aggravate her pain. They cared so much for the other’s needs.

• Possessiveness, the need for their attention and time, not wanting to see them with anyone else, cute, indirect confessions in the heat of the moment.

This is all the amusing and confusing part of a relationship. When you don’t know why you feel like you have a claim over -

- that person,and you try to control it,but you find it hard to and end up a little grumpy. It’s so cute, and the sentiments behind it even cuter. Like a baby not wanting its mum to hold another baby. It surprises you but love makes you do crazy things, things you normally don’t.

• Roothna Manana and resolving all fights as soon as possible

Every couple has arguments. A relationship consists of 2 people. 2 people with different upbringings, different beliefs, different opinions and different perspectives and ways of doing things. This leads to -

- disagreements. Sometimes it can be something as silly as jaan booj ke unko naraz karna for the fun of it,playfully, other times a result of hurting them with your actions, knowingly or unknowingly. Both are normal in relationships as long as they’re dealt with healthily. They-

- can make or break your bond and in SidNaaz’s case it always strengthened it because they never let it get in the middle of them. They knew the importance of their relationship and valued it. It was worth it all. The tears, the fear, the anger, the vulnerability, the jealousy, -

- the possessiveness. It’s all part of a relationship. We are humans. We feel. That’s the beauty of relationships like this. The coming together of all emotions, negative and positive to produce a beautiful love, like paints mixing together on a canvas to form a masterpiece. At -

- the end of the day,you choose your partner. You choose love. You can’t forget the endless happy moments because of a few bad ones. They never did. They chose each other. Again and again and again. They made up as quickly as they could. Because they couldn’t fall asleep without-

- being in each other’s arms either.

• Becoming huge parts of each other’s family

With accepting one another comes accepting everything about each other. That includes the people who birthed you and raised you, the people you call your own, the people who are part of your -

- world.The people you call family. It’s such an admirable thing to witness.Two people so in love,their union bringing about the union of people who were strangers before,but become important to them too.Both their worlds expand a little, bringing in new people and merging into -

- one. And their families are the kindest, sweetest people ever. Their religious and cultural beliefs were so different yet that never was a hindrance in their relationship.From their height difference to their language difference,nothing bothered them. It’s something the world-

- could use a little more of. The way their families are together in happiness and grief. They’ve created a lifelong, unbreakable bond.

• Acts of affection
Soft caresses,fixing the other’s hair,gentle cuddles,quiet murmurs,wide smiles,forehead kisses, cheek kisses, pinching -

-their nose fondly,squeezing the other’s cheeks, endearing nicknames, lipstick stains, eating from one plate, sharing food, preferring to see them bare faced and without makeup, spending hours together and enjoying every second and still wanting more, having fun together,playing-

- around together, inside jokes which no one else understands, limited PDA (which my mumma says is the reason why she likes them: “decent lagte hein mujhe 😂❤️”) because they kept private everything that should have been private and that they wanted to keep for themselves-

-,I like you and I love yous, confessions,tareef karna and karwana.They were always in their own bubble,their own little world that they handcrafted themselves,that they nurtured and grew so beautifully that humare liye wo Ek misaal ban chuke hein,Ek standard jo hum apne liye set

- kar rahe hein so we can have a love like theirs.

Kyunke SidNaaz Ek tag nahi hein, they are everything. All the good in the world stuffed inside two souls so interconnected, there’s no way they can’t be soulmates. Two people I treasure like they are my own. Two people I look -

- up to so much. Two people who give me the strength to hold on during the bad days. Two people who touched my heart in ways no one has.

You are our family @ishehnaaz_gill and @sidharth_shukla . And ye family? Boht strong he, Kabhi kahin nahi jaaye gi. You won our loyalty -

-, humara sath, our love. And you’ll have it forever.

SNSHAKHAHR ❤️