''Your circle of Trust
There are times when we have disagreements with our friends. Things breakdown. It might bring out bitter feelings, anger and bile. For some, they fight dirty. All secrets during the friendship become revealed. They blab to all that will listen.
There are times when we have disagreements with our friends. Things breakdown. It might bring out bitter feelings, anger and bile. For some, they fight dirty. All secrets during the friendship become revealed. They blab to all that will listen.
The desire is to hurt. I have experienced this with a friend and with an acquaintance. The acquaintance subtly tried blackmail. I did not need to drag myself with people that do not care. So I diffused the tension. With the friend, he revealed all plus extra.
There are really no secrets in life anyway. But I learnt.That it is wise to leave a space for a fight in friendships. So your friend will not have all the ammunition to kill you, should they choose to do that. The other lesson is being circumspect.
Circumspect in those you allow into your space.As Bob Marley sang “your best friend could be your worst enemy”. Keep that in mind in friendships when the going is good. The going might get bad.It is a character flaw for some.
They will destroy what they have built in anger. They will leak like water taps in Fiditi. They will spill all even if it gets them into trouble as well. We see this regularly.This has nothing to do with the former Osun bearded man or the Lion of Lagos''
-Ademola H Adigun
-Ademola H Adigun
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