25 harsh truths about life, you need to know today.
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1. There are more people who reject themselves, than are rejected by the world.
2. There are more people who got lucky and think they deserve it, than people who deserve it and think they got lucky.
3. There are more people who seek a relationship with someone else than a relationship with themselves.
4. There are more people who are willing to lie and come across as nice, than say the truth even if people do not like it.
5. There are more people who failed, moved on and thus kept failing, than people who failed, reflected and thus succeeded.
6. There are more people who are scared to start, than people who are lazy to start.
7. There are more people who think money will solve everything, than people with money with everything solved.
8. There are more people desperately chasing happiness, than people choosing to be happy.
9. There are more people trying to make others happy, than trying to be happy.
10. There are more people listening so that they can answer, than people listening so that they can understand.
11. There are more people who have crushed their childhood dreams, than those who never had them.
12. There are more people who think the world has a lot of bad people, than there are bad people.
13. There are more people worried about what others are thinking of them, than people who are actually thinking of them.
14. There are more people hoping that something will fix them, than fixed people.
15. There are more people living in the past, than living in the moment.
16. There are more people trying to settle, than trying to explore.
17. There are more people failing because they didn't seek help, than people succeeding without help.
18. There are more people living each day as if they will live forever, than living as if it were their last.
19. There are more people in bad relationships, than in bad jobs.
20. There are more people who are friends with the wrong people, than people who are lonely.
21. There are more people seeking free things that mean nothing, than people wanting to pay for something meaningful.
22. There are more people who constantly desire more, than those who appreciate what they have.
23. There are more people making decisions out of ignorance, than out of awareness.
24. There are more good singers and dancers who have never sung or danced because of fear, than bad singers and dancers.
25. There are more people not reading books, than people who can't read books.
None of these statements are data backed. They could very well be false.
That's not the point.
The point is -
What beliefs are driving your life?
What do you think happens in the world, that makes up your world?
We all have an understanding of the world that we are convinced is true.
And those beliefs consume us.
What has always worked for me, is to go through a self-assessment of my beliefs every year.
To question them.
And ask myself - are my beliefs limiting me, or helping me?
Beliefs are choices.
You first choose your beliefs.
And then your beliefs affect your choices.
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I asked people "When was the last time you cried"?
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I cried on my birthday !!reason :- I think I can't make my parents proud
The one person I truly love, who doesn’t love me back the same way - is going through a rough patch in life and it sucks how I can not do anything to make them feel better.
1. Start your messages/emails by addressing them by their name
Don't just stop at hey or hi.
Go beyond.
Acknowledge the one thing that truly belongs to them.
Their name.
Even more so when you are replying.
Through this, they are likelier to remember you than others.
2. Send emails to yourself, in the future
Whatever is it that you are feeling right now, will disappear.
Document this feeling.
And share it with your future self, when you think you will be ready to process it again.
I didn't make it to IIT after my Class 12th.
Because of which I went to Delhi University.
Which is where I met my future wife.
If I made it to IIT, I may have never met her!
I didn't make it to IIT for an MS.
Because of which I did just 1 more year of MS from Delhi Uni and left for the US for a PhD.
Which is where I realized, this wasn't my calling.
If I made it to IIT, I may have taken longer to realize what I didn't want to do.
Overthinking is a thing!
We all tend to overthink.
And strangely, it is almost always about the thing that will go bad.
No one in history was overthinking about the good things.
Imagine, your friend calls before an interview, "OMG dude, they are going to love me, fall for my credentials, my experience, my pedigree and I am going to get this job. Money + this brand on my resume. SOMEBODY STOP THIS OVERTHINKING!"