The thing that’s always struck me about this (not only as a Black woman but also as a psychiatrist IRL who’s literally tasked with helping people cope with stress, illness and the ups & downs of life) is the Black woman savior complex of it all. It’s subconscious but ubiquitous.
As with many things in America, I also think it’s yet another sociological phenomenon brought to us by slavery. A lot of White family systems fell apart (continue to) without the presence of a Mammy or some form of matriarchal Black help in the home. jstor.org/stable/2714687
I think that’s why when Black women in the modern day don’t feel obligated to expend any extra time or energy (for FREE) on trying to educate White people into finally deciding to act like they have some sense and save their own lives, they feel slighted and insulted. 🧐🤷🏾♀️
Their attitude is basically like “aren’t you supposed to go out of your way to serve me?” Some of them hit the point of all out rage about it, which is also when their deep seated bigotry & ignorance starts shining through, no matter how much they profess to be a reliable ally.
The bottom line is still that a lot of White Americans (not all 😒) don’t want to do the necessary work, across multiple domains of society and citizenship. They’ve been conditioned to outsource utilitarian/egalitarian sacrifice to “those people” while they bathe in privilege.
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Except for all intents/purposes, VA *was* TX not too long ago. The 2021 Gubernatorial election set back over a decade of hard-won progress by VA Democrats. It can happen in ANY historically or recently “blue” state at the drop of a dime, if enough White voters DEFECT/vote GOP. 🥴
The other thing to remember is #WeTriedToTellThem ALL of this shit was gonna happen (all over again) but HELL NO. This is yet another consequence of MAGAts who have both a death wish and outsized influence on every single public/private system in 🇺🇸 running the asylum. 🤡👹👺🦊
Adding this here b/c it’s really important that we also recognize how the toxic/violent masculinization of GOP women voters also extends to #MAGAWoman elected officials. They’ve created an army of Ashli Babbitts who aid/abet the radicalization of their menfolk & themselves. 👹🤡
By now we’ve seen too many GOP/GOP adjacent mothers/wives/girlfriends either completely “overlook” the extremism in their midst or actively enable and facilitate the obstinance/defiance and evasion of consequences that leads to White, right wing domestic terrorism. #VanillaISIS
The thing that really chaps my hide about it is I’ve heard Republicans vilify Black family values & label us criminals/social deviants my whole life, yet here they are breeding & grooming the most PROLIFIC White domestic terrorists America’s ever seen and the NARRATIVE is SILENT.
PSA🚨: The White American majority has been voting GOP for the last ~60 YEARS, ever since LBJ signed the Civil/Voting Rights Acts. This is *readily Googleable* info and it’s bordering on a dereliction of basic American citizenship for SO MANY folk to STILL not know this FACT.