Hmm, I’m really curious if this is a difference between ADD and ADHD? I don’t know if I know anyone with ADHD, but I have a LOT of close friends with ADD and this really doesn’t track with how they describe their own experiences.
I mean, hell, one of my friends with pretty severe ADD is also the one who can lay out each step of moving a piece of furniture for me to minimize the likelihood of damaging myself, the furniture, the walls, or the floor.
I also have a friend with aphantasia, who doesn’t have ADD, so it’s weird to hear it described as a component because some of my friends with ADD are artists and don’t have any trouble forming mental images.
Thanks for the clarification that they’re the same and ADD is outdated—it’s what most of my friend with it call it, but also we are all ancient as the sea.
(I’m also curious because I’ve had 3 therapists now tell me they think I have undiagnosed ADHD—I have the whole thing where stimulants soothe me and sleeping pills make me wired, I hyperfocus a lot, and I have to divide up large tasks and provide myself sub task-rewards to…
…stay on track, but also it seems sort of irrelevant because I don’t actually have trouble getting things done—I almost always just make lists and get up and walk around between each step or alternate btwn tasks or if I have to stay put (e.g. tests) I go into hyperfocus mode.
But getting told that I might have it makes me curious.
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The idea that throwing out rules to obey your heart is the highest form of virtue is actually a very Christian take on things--Christianity has always had a strong antinomian bent, at least on paper
But Judaism *isn't* about tossing everything out the window if you think you're obeying a higher calling
it's about recognizing that Grand Moral Principles are useless without a strategy for implementation
Reading Christian commentary on the parable of the Good Samaritan and 90% of it is "the kohen and the Levite wouldn't help the man because Ritual Purity" and 90% of that includes "so it was a GENTILE who helped!!!" & it's amazing how so many "experts" can be this blatantly wrong.
Seriously, Christians doing commentary on parables, get the words "ritual purity" and "unclean" out of your mouths.
You get it wrong every. single. time.
But I've already talked about that a million times, so instead I want to focus on the whole line of commentary that's "it was a marginalized person/'unclean' enemy/gentile who was the one who helped!"
I read a lot of YA because it’s where some of the more interesting SFF stuff is happening, but that also means I also start reading a lot of stuff that’s not great and boy howdy let’s talk about the normalization of white Christian society in dystopian YA stuff.
Like, if you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’re probably aware of how frustrated I get that a lot of internet atheists seem unable to perceive just how Christian their vision of a secular society is.
But WOW does a lot of YA worldbuilding have the same problem.
And that means that there’s a lot of unacknowledged genocide lurking offstage in these books.
And not acknowledging it feels like a really big *problem.*
The most toxic masculinity--and contempt for their own kids--I've encountered has been among white-collar men.
The contractors who put in my floors brought their children. They had festive music on, they were laughing and talking and so affectionate with the kids.
Like, I came home from the grocery store, and a bunch of the older boys (probably middle school? I can't tell child ages) were hanging out around one of the trucks and they asked if they could help me carry in my groceries.
We walked inside, and there was music and people talking and laughing and kids running around and I remember just being stunned by how *festive* it felt (and in the middle of 2021, it'd been a long time since I'd been to a party)...
no, it's forbidding someone with no ownership rights to the IP from profiting off it--nothing's stopping WOTC from creating a Magic presence in web3 (ew)
Like, look, NFTs are gross and I hope they die a dramatic and ugly death and all these grifters trying to NFT other people's work end up both humiliated and owing the artists they're stealing from a LOT of money
I'm about 75% of the way through the new @MaintenancePod episode on Supersize Me, and it's been making me think of something I'd really like to hear @yrfatfriend and @RottenInDenmark take on: the way the language of addiction is ab/used around eating. maintenancephase.com
Like, if there's one thing you come to understand by listening to a lot of Maintenance Phase, it's that America has a *deeply* unhealthy relationship to food and weight.
And I'm noticing, in the media they talk about, when it's talking about fat people, or to people who want to lose weight, how there's this leitmotiv of "addiction," whether it's implicit or explicit.