13 Red flags to look for in women 🧵

1. Entitled. Highly individualistic, avoids commitment, disloyal.

2. Pushy, controlling, plays victim, runs hot + cold

3. Poor discipline with: finances, health, fitness, grooming

4. Dirty + disorganized residence
5. “Dates around” to avoid being alone/bored

6. Lacks family values, integrity, self respect with no healthy role models

7. Lacks accountability/humility, shifts blame or makes excuses. Can’t admit to being wrong, apologize, self correct.
8. Unable to regulate her emotions, easily triggered, gets disrespectful/malicious when angry or in conflict

9. Married to career

10. Lacks feminine qualities like class, grace, elegance, empathy, patience, joy, playfulness + vulnerability
11. Holds extreme ideology with little tolerance or capacity for nuance

12. Poor sense of self, poor boundaries, poor self awareness

13. Doesn’t want kids (with you)

👉🏽Men, avoid these #redflags
I was going to add a follow up as a qualifier, but @Pat_Stedman said it beautifully:

“Almost everyone has at least 1 or 2 issues. Doesn't need to be an automatic disqualifier. People can heal…Main concern is when red flags compound. Avoid girls checking multiple boxes here.”
Here’s a 20 min video of my explaining these RED FLAGS in detail to hopefully help you get a better idea of the nuance…

OR it’ll just piss everyone off on this list even more😬

I’d like to stay optimistic

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11 fundamental questions to answer before marriage:

1. What’s their stress language?

How do they act when they’re overwhelmed?

2. How have they applied the lessons they learned from their previous mistakes?

Can I forgive them for all their previous mistakes without a trial?
3. Do we agree on important things + contrast comfortably elsewhere?

e.g. Life vision, core values/life principles, health, relationship standards, family planning.

4. Are they globally healthy or on track to be by their own merits?

Mentally, physically, financially, etc.
5. Are we passionately drawn to each other, do we feel energized or stifled by each other, are we enthusiastically connected?

6. Do we function well as a team?

Can we be both follower + leader effectively as appropriate, according to our values?

Do they collaborate or control?
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Dec 29, 2021
What is VETTING?

It teaches you to not get attached emotionally or escalate to sex prematurely + not to force an outcome because of “feelings.”

You VET for alignment + what meets your needs, complements your aspirations + connects with you on a deep, conscious level.

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It allows you to clarify: who brings the best out of me + vice versa?

You’ll start to see everything as vetting when it’s internalized.

You’re constantly doing it + seeking alignment with healthy connections to elevate your quality of life.

You’re refining yourself.

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It’s not “going out with x number of men or women,”

You’re living your life consciously vetting others + yourself in interactions as the norm.

This is getting to know you, them + the connections between you.

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Nov 5, 2021
May I be vulnerable with you?

I have an observation about myself that I think would be beneficial to share for others that may have a similar experience.
My social energy is so focused on helping people 24/7 that it’s very hard for me to talk to people without being a helper.

I have good friends, but we don’t talk much. I talk to Dennis + that’s fulfilling for “me.”

Every time I talk to my friends it shifts into me helping.

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When they ask about “me” I have very little to say.

“Life is great, thanks. Tell me about you…”

Unless we’re doing something active together experiencing life, there’s nothing I need to say.
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Sep 6, 2021
Embrace your feminine + masculine energy ladies and gentlemen.

🤴🏼Men need an effective quota of feminine traits to be healthy + integrated.

👸🏼Women need an effective quota of masculine traits to be healthy + integrated.

Read on…
And vice versa ☯️ Meaning some men need more masculine and some women need more feminine. They feel more comfortable in their complementary energy.

Trying to banish either energy internally results in unhealthy relationships + unhealthy identity (self) development.
It’s important to remember that “being feminine” doesn’t mean remove all masculine traits or energy + being masculine doesn’t mean remove all feminine traits or energy👫
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Sep 4, 2021
Do you know your authentic self?

Think of our core, true self as our vibrations. We can turn the volume up or down and we can change the treble and bass etc as we see fit.

We don’t have to turn ourselves all the way up all the time.

And we get to adjust it as needed.
This doesn’t make us disingenuous or fake, it makes us proactive and responsive.

Social adaptiveness is important for our protection, survival & overall quality of life.

The healthier we become the more clarity we have in our vibrations.
We are in harmony but can still flux and flow, we remain fluid.

The core self is the consistency that runs through all these fluctuations, our energetic fingerprint.

But our energy isn’t meant to be static.
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Women’s team USA beach volleyball (Alix/Ross) is playing CUBA Sunday in the first playoff match in #Tokyo2020

I played CUBA in 2017 #NORCECA quarterfinals in Cayman. They’re strong, but I’m rooting for @USAVBeach

Let’s go 🇺🇸
Still gives me chills of pride to know I got a chance to play at this level. Finished 8th in the quarterfinals that tournament… the best finish for my country!
That came was humbling to say the least but I played hard!
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