Thread by @taylorburrowes

13 Red flags to look for in women 🧵

1. Entitled. Highly individualistic, avoids commitment, disloyal.

2. Pushy, controlling, plays victim, runs hot + cold

3. Poor discipline with: finances, health, fitness, grooming

4. Dirty + disorganized residence

5. “Dates around” to avoid being alone/bored

6. Lacks family values, integrity, self respect with no healthy role models

7. Lacks accountability/humility, shifts blame or makes excuses. Can’t admit to being wrong, apologize, self correct.

8. Unable to regulate her emotions, easily triggered, gets disrespectful/malicious when angry or in conflict

9. Married to career

10. Lacks feminine qualities like class, grace, elegance, empathy, patience, joy, playfulness + vulnerability

11. Holds extreme ideology with little tolerance or capacity for nuance

12. Poor sense of self, poor boundaries, poor self awareness

13. Doesn’t want kids (with you)

👉🏽Men, avoid these #redflags

I was going to add a follow up as a qualifier, but @Pat_Stedman said it beautifully:

“Almost everyone has at least 1 or 2 issues. Doesn't need to be an automatic disqualifier. People can heal…Main concern is when red flags compound. Avoid girls checking multiple boxes here.”

Here’s a 20 min video of my explaining these RED FLAGS in detail to hopefully help you get a better idea of the nuance…

OR it’ll just piss everyone off on this list even more😬

I’d like to stay optimistic

CLICK HERE TO WATCH: