"This isn't working for me." or "I don't know if this is helping me."
"Can we try a different approach?"
"I don't agree with you."
"I thought about sharing this with you (over email/text) but didn't." or "_________ reminded me of you."
"I feel [embarrassed/weird/ashamed/guilty] for saying/feeling these things."
"I sometimes wish my parent/partner was more like you."
You *can* say things to your therapist. Sharing what's going on with you internally is important for the work you want to do together.
Remember: therapy is a COLLABORATION. Therapist's are not experts in your experience. Honest communication w/ a therapist is good practice for authenticity and honesty in the rest of your life.
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Making friends as an adult is hard. Keeping friends as an adult is even harder. The @amersurveyctr report on friendships shows that Americans report having fewer close friendships than before. My thoughts on why 🧵
Early to mid adulthood sees a lot of life transitions: moving to different cities to pursue education, jobs, or going with romantic partners. Choosing to become a digital nomad vs staying in your hometown can impact your friendship.
Difference in income. This is the one no one talks about. Some friends might hit the 100K jobs while others are struggling to make 70K. This income disparity creates a disconnect in lifestyle and can result in you growing apart.