10 things Iβve learned about PRODUCTIVITY as a Muslim
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1. Mortality Motivation
You only have a finite number of years on earth. Choose the pain of discipline over the pain of regret. Pray to God to guide your way, say Bismillah and get startedβ¦
2. Foundational Habits:
X hours sleep, morning dhikr, daily Qurβan, foods high in protein & healthy fats, regular resistance exercise, make you way more productive & focused. Identify your foundational habits & schedule them in as a must. Create processes that boost productivity
3. Saying βNoβ
Every time you say βyesβ to something, youβre saying βnoβ to something else. Know when to say βnoβ, to be able to achieve your goals. Know when to build relaxation time in too.
4. Deadlines
If itβs not in your calendar it ainβt happening. Put a hard deadline in your diary, make someone give you a deadline and schedule actions backwards to meet that deadline.
5. Identify the 5 big milestones
When itβs overwhelming, write down the 5 big steps youβd need to reach to achieve it. Then break those big 5 down too. Celebrate each time you hit one of the big 5
6. Break the boulder down into pebbles
Rather than staring at the mountain ahead, beat procrastination by listing the individual actions youβll need to take to achieve a task, then just make yourself knock βem off one by one.
7. Barakah
Take time out to do things that add blessing to your time. Give Sadaqah, answer your mumβs phone calls, run errands for your dad, host guests generously, give your time and attention to others. These counterintuitively bless your productivity
8. On bad days
List 3 basic goals and knock βem off. Be happy you maintained some momentum in life.
9. Anticipate setbacks
Itβs meant to be hard. Expect that, and see the struggle and part of the process of developing and strengthening you. No setback is insurmountable. Youβll figure it out if you put your mind to it.
10. Consistency
Get back up. Get back on it. Create a new plan and keep moving forward.
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Ideas for .@DouglasKMurray and pals to win back Europe from the Muslimsπ§πΌthey fear so much and prevent its demise:
1. Start going Church and kickstart mass revival of Christianity, moving ppl away from atheism & meaningless ideologies. (Whaddya mean you donβt want to go Church?)
2. Encourage a mass baby boom amongst non-Muslims consistently for multiple generations (encourage women to settle down younger, have more babies, revive marriage even. It means discouraging alternative lifestyles and materialistic concerns about having big families).
3. Invent a new religion, with a scripture as compelling as the Qurβan anchored by deeply embedded truths that people are willing to live and fight for, even give up their lives for. (Yep- a doomed project)
Children do not lose their Iman overnight. Parents please be vigilant. Donβt allow your teens to become strangers in their own homes. When you see your child or household culture going down a slippery slope - itβs time for renewal and intervention. Sooner rather than later.
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1. Connection with Allah
Do they talk to Allah? Do they know Allah? Do you pray and make duβa together? Are you establishing prayers in the house? At least some prayers in jamaβah? Salah protects from shamelessness and sin.
2. Connection with you as parent.
Do you show them love and attention? Can they come have banter and test ideas and worries with you? Do you spend plenty of time together? Can you help them with any questions they have?
Do sisters writing about the Emma Barnett female Imams debacle, referring to their fight against βpatriarchyβ realise that they are saying worse than anything Barnett did. They are literally parroting leftist/feminist/orientalist labelling of Islam as patriarchal?
We submit to the Divine, yes. The Divine is neither male nor female.
However the highest authority in our deen was the Prophet Muhammad S. who was a MAN. The eponyms of our foremost legal schools were MEN. The head of the family is the man. Are you fighting against that?
We had Mothers of the Believers who were also legal authorities - they are our matriarchs. Islam doesnβt fit the feminist paradigm.
Are we so intellectually colonised that we must use the language and labellings of Western feminism to view our own Deen?
One of the striking things about Aisha (RA) was that although not a biological mother herself, she considered children & the next generation so important that she decided to raise orphans in her home and prioritised them as her students. Some of them were her nephews and nieces..
Talha ibn Ubaydillah and az-Zubair bin al-'Awwam were her brothers-in-law and were killed around the time of the Incident of the Camel. Muhammad bin Abi Bakr -her brother- was killed in Egypt by the Umayyad governor. They left behind children who Aisha (RA) took under her wing...
Their orphaned children became great scholars, muhaddiths and jurists under her tutelage:
al-Qasim bin Muhammad (her brother's son)
'Urwah bin az-Zubair (her sister Asma's son)
'Aisha bint Talha (her sister Umm Kulthoum's son)...
Muslim students - the uni environment can cause us to lower our guard with regards to interactions with the opposite sex, but we must keep our guard up. Attraction and crushes feel very real (and can be painful)...
Some day you will, in shΔ AllΔh, be happily married to someone you love, who is good for your dΔ«n and worthy of building a family with. Until then, protect yourself and your heart from the pain of harΔm relationships and everything that can lead to them...
Actively avoid situations that ignite desires. By, for example, not freely mixing with the opposite sex, not being in seclusion with your professor (of the opposite sex), not listening to lewd lyrics, and lowering your gaze. Islam gave us these guidelines for our own protection.