When I was 7 yrs old, my cousin Sameera died from #leukaemia

She was 15 & initially we thought she had the ‘flu

There were no curative treatments in the 80’s & she sadly died

I was heartbroken

In our faith, people gather at the family home to pay their respects

1/5
After school, I would go & visit my aunt & cousins

The front door was always open

People would come & join in prayers

And I remember our childhood #GP , Dr Minwalla, coming after surgery

He wasn’t #Muslim but was very much our family dr & came every evening

2/5
He would come in, take off his shoes & just sit in the corner with a cup of tea

I remember his burgundy socks & sometimes he would smile at me as I said a prayer on little colourful beads

He’d stay for a bit & then head home

At the time, I thought this was rather special

3/5
But little did I know, Dr Minwalla would actually be my inspiration for the kind of dr I wanted to be

A proper family doctor!

Imagine my delight when yrs later, I bumped into him at a wedding

“I delivered you when you were born upside down” he said. “What do you do now?”

4/5
“I’m a #GP” I said, and then embarrassed him by calling him my hero!

Meeting your role model is a wonderful feeling

Dr Minwalla, you are amazing! 😎

#TeamGP

5/5

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Aug 4, 2021
I looked at my computer screen to see who was coming in next:

96 years old, male

He walked in, standing tall & proud

Wearing a three piece, perfectly pressed suit

& a pure white turban

His eyes were tired with cataracts, but they still had a twinkle

1/7
He waited for me to offer a chair, before he sat down

He told me about his headaches & his dizziness & medications

& I assessed him & we planned what to do

“Where are you from, betta (daughter)?” he asked

We both had a connection in our roots

2/7
& we started conversing in #Punjabi

Sometimes I would get muddled & mix in #Urdu words

& he would chuckle & say, “It’s ok, betta, you speak our language really well”

He had fled with his family during the partition of #India

& so had my grandparents, during that time

3/7
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Oct 12, 2020
When I first qualified as a #GP

An elderly man came to see me

He mentioned a symptom & we addressed it

He then sat there for a few seconds

His records showed he came the same time every yr

With a simple symptom

“What’s really bothering you?” I asked

“Your eyes seem sad”

1
He told me that every year he came to the drs

He would mention a made up symptom to see if they would listen or take him seriously

If he didn’t think they did, he left

It was the anniversary of his son’s death & he never knew what else to do

2
We sat there & talked about his son

Sometimes sitting in silence

He had a broken heart that couldn’t be fixed, he said

I nodded & listened -

I often think about that day

Talking about heartache & pain is a big deal - patients might want to “test us” before they trust us

3
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Sep 19, 2020
We’ve heard moaning from a well paid leader today

So here is a list of things I have seen my patients struggle with:

Going without meals so their children don’t

Not getting their prescriptions for important medications, like asthma inhalers

1/4
Missing school not having sanitary products

Walking 13 miles daily for work, not being able to afford bus fare

Despairing they’ve walked 6 miles to the food bank & it is closed, having not eaten for 2 days

Giving up work because childcare costs more than what they earn

2/4
Repaying a weekly fee in council rent arrears, whilst being homeless & not having any money left over for food

Sex work to pay the bills

Pawning their wedding ring to pay rent

Refusing a recommended hospital admission because they don’t get sick pay

3/4
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