The only "crisis" involving interfaith/multi-faith (or faithless) marriages within our Jewish community - is how some mainstream community, in the name of "tradition," treat loving families.
The only threat to "continuity" is when you exclude loving families, who choose to be >
#NewYears is on Shabbos - aka, as Jews we have rich traditions on how to celebrate at home.
One of the most beautiful parts of Jewish year-cycle rituals and celebrations, is the "do at home" parts.
This year, let's #StayHome and put it to use celebrating New Year's as well 🎉
Some traditions to put to use:
- if you can, prepare foods that "set the mood" for you. Whether historically traditional, or just traditional for you.
- set the table. Traditionally on Shabbat that means a white tablecloth, candles, etc. Use what sets the table for you.
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- structure the meal. If that helps (it does me) start the meal with some reflections or song (religious, spiritual, or secular). And wrap up with something similar.
- dress up! My favorite part of every Shabbos. Wherever I am, the power of dressing up can't be overstated.
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When I was doing my post-Rabbinical ordination in a Hasidic school, there was a woman who was told SHE IS REQUIRED by Jewish law to have a 3rd trimester abortion/induce labor (with almost no chance of fetus survival).
Many states now outlaw it.
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The husband got really upset, and didn't wanna go through with it (sadly, he had that control), till we asked the Rebbe (my former community's Supreme Leader).
He and the Rabbi (I was shadowing at the time) went to ask the Rebbe.
The Rebbe's response: if the doctors say >
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> there is even a chance of danger to the mom, "it's a Mitzvah (good deed) to do it."
The husband tried to say that there is also a chance they will both survive.
The Rebbe just repeated himself. It's a Mitzvah.
Yup, that's right. One of the most radical, strict >
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