Thread by @sheshapatangi1

As he grew older (and following wife Kasturba’s death) he was to have more women around him and would oblige women to sleep with him whom – according to his segregated ashram rules – were forbidden to sleep with their own husbands.
Gandhi lived as he wished, and only when

challenged did he turn his own preferences into a cosmic system of rewards and benefits. Like many great men, Gandhi made up the rules as he went along.

Gandhi would have women in his bed, engaging in his “experiments” which seem to have been, from a reading of his letters,

an exercise in strip-tease or other non-contact sexual activity.
By 1947, a 33-year-old Sushila Nayar was replaced by 18-year-olds – Manu and Abha – who were with him till his death.

Today is the birthday of Abha Gandhi, wife of Kanu Gandhi, nephew of MKGandhi.
While I tried

to read more about her, I came across this book

Gandhi - Naked Ambitions.
Excerpts from that book....

"abnormal and unnatural" was how Jawaharlal Nehru, described Gandhi's advice to newlyweds to stay celibate for the sake of their souls.
It was no secret that Gandhi had

an unusual sex life. He spoke constantly of sex and gave detailed, often provocative, instructions to his followers as to how to they might best observe chastity. And his views were not always popular.

Much of Gandhi's bizarre sexual history was known during his lifetime

but was distorted or suppressed after his death during the process of elevating Gandhi into the "Father of the Nation" Was the Mahatma, in fact, as the pre-independence prime minister of the Indian state of Travancore called him, "a most dangerous, semi-repressed sex maniac"?

Gandhi was challenging that abstinence in his own way, he began his first "experiments" with sex; boys and girls were to bathe and sleep together, chastely, but were punished for any sexual talk. Men and women were segregated, and Gandhi's advice was that husbands should not be

alone with their wives, and, when they felt passion, should take a cold bath.

The rules did not, however, apply to him. Sushila Nayar, the attractive sister of Gandhi's secretary, also his personal physician, attended Gandhi from girlhood. She used to sleep & bathe with Gandhi.

When challenged, he explained how he ensured decency was not offended. "While she is bathing I keep my eyes tightly shut," he said, "I do not know ... whether she bathes naked or with her underwear on. I can tell from the sound that she uses soap."

As he grew older he was to

have more women around him.
Much explicit material has been destroyed but tantalising remarks in Gandhi's letters remain such as: "Vina's sleeping with me might be called an accident. All that can be said is that she slept close to me." One might assume, then, that getting into

the spirit of the Gandhian experiment meant something more than just sleeping close to him.

While in Bengal during Noakhali riots Gandhi called for his 18-year-old grandniece Manu to join him and sleep with him. "We both may be killed by the Muslims," he told her, "and must put

our purity to the ultimate test, so that we know that we are offering the purest of sacrifices, and we should now both start sleeping naked."

Such behaviour was no part of the accepted practice of bramacharya. He, by now, described his reinvented concept of a brahmachari as:

"One who never has any lustful intention, who, by constant attendance upon God, has become proof against conscious or unconscious emissions, who is capable of lying naked with naked women, however beautiful, without being in any manner whatsoever sexually excited, who is making

daily & steady progress towards God & whose every act is done in pursuance of that end & no other." That is, he could do whatever he wished, so long as there was no apparent "lustful intention". He had effectively redefined the concept of chastity to fit his personal practices.

Gandhi's behaviour was widely discussed and criticised by family members and leading politicians. Some members of his staff resigned, including two editors of his newspaper who left after refusing to print parts of Gandhi's sermons dealing with his sleeping arrangements.

But Gandhi found a way of regarding the objections as a further reason tocontinue. "If I don't let Manu sleep with me, though I regard it as essential that she should," he announced, "wouldn't that be a sign of weakness in me?"
Eighteen-year-old Abha, the wife of Gandhi's

grandnephew Kanu Gandhi, rejoined Gandhi's entourage in the run-up to independence in 1947 and by the end of August he was sleeping with both Manu and Abha at the same time.
Questioned in the 1970s, Sushila revealingly placed the elevation of this lifestyle to a brahmacharya

experiment was a response to criticism of this behaviour. "Later on, when people started asking questions about his physical contact with women – with Manu, with Abha, with me – the idea of brahmacharya experiments was developed ... in the early days, there was no question of

calling this a brahmacharya experiment." It seems that Gandhi lived as he wished, and only when challenged did he turn his own preferences into a cosmic system of rewards and benefits. Like many great men, Gandhi made up the rules as he went along.

Attached here is the link

for brief but tragic story of Kasturba too for your reading

https://twitter.com/sheshapatangi1/status/1513352430250995715?s=20&t=8W6-IBSqzcM9Onltw_6qsA

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