thinking in extremes; something is either perfect or it’s terrible
discounting the positives:
ignoring positive comments, feedback, or information, and instead only focusing on the negatives
catastrophizing:
imagining and expecting a worst-case scenario, instead of taking a more balanced perspective
mind-reading:
assuming we know what someone else is thinking (usually something negative) when they haven’t told us directly
personalization:
assuming that we are the cause of negative events; taking things personally; blaming ourselves for things that aren’t actually our fault
magnification:
blowing things out of proportion; reacting to things more strongly or treating things as more important than is warranted
its inverse is minimization:
playing things down; pretending something doesn’t matter when it does
jumping to conclusions:
assuming we know how things will turn out; assuming that because one (usually negative) thing happened, it also means other (usually negative) things will happen
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