Thread by @bronfoth

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The abuse Johnny describes includes gaslighting, & seems most similar to "narcissistic abuse".

In his everyday life, Johnny is surrounded by people who observe him & his environments, & his interactions with others. Video footage of his movements is the norm.

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➡️ These daily life differences are providing Johnny with the opportunity to move beyond "he said, she said".
Truth can be manipulated by the person recording or recalling (even unconsciously), but surveillance footage is very helpful.

Usually victims are helpless.

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➡️ The majority of victims of narc abuse will say that people around them did see the truth for themselves, and many experience rejection or further loss for trying to speak their truth.
It is a very insidious form of abuse that leaves one feeling isolated and alone.
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➡️ From their broken, isolated & defeated state, the victim is aware that people must see the truth for themselves.
The victim loses everything, knowing the perpetrator will never be held accountable, & in many cases has gained from the abuse.

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➡️ it is very rare to see a victim try to hold their accuser accountable and to have absolutely solid, irrefutable evidence.

While I wish all victims got this same opportunity, I celebrate if even one person can.
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There's so much we can learn from this case.

#TruthMatters
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