Attitude: a mental position or conclusion held of a situation based on facts you have.
Perspective: A mental view or prospect, capacity to view things based on their relative importance.
Your perspective determines your attitude and it also provokes your attitude towards the information you have.
You attitude about issues speaks of your perspective of it.
1Samuel 25:2-3
1. Change is not always sudden, most especially after marriage.
Our perspective should always be how to help our spouse/friend to be better.
2. When we do good or render assistance to others, it shouldn't be in expectation of such in return.
Our perspective in life about helping others should not be about reciprocation. Galatians 6:2,9-10